You got the role of main character in your own life. Congratulations, you are playing the best character in the world, aka yourself. Being a main character has so many perks and benefits. This is your story, so make it a once-in-a-lifetime story that no one can compete with. Your life is what you make it, how you create it, and how you balance it. 


See your life as a feature film. This means embracing your life and what comes with it. Your life can be what you want it to be or you can pivot and change it. The main character is in control of their life and makes the decisions. Your life is a series of stages from school to college or university, then entering the workforce and financial independence as an adult. In between all of these stages, you have to live, learn and create balance. Your failures, depression, and mistakes make you who you are. 


Your story has so many chapters, and it gets better each time. Being the main character can help you become who you want to become. Your life makes you the main character and what you do matters. You are the protagonist of your own story. Writing your own story can be just you, being romantic, the grind of self-acceptance or whatever you want. Creating your own story is a journey of self-discovery. It's a series of turning the page every day and embracing what makes it every day. The main characters are always in control of every aspect of their control. The main characters make decisions that impact their lives. If you want to start a new chapter, start planning. Start small, then start building towards your dream. The main character's personality starts with a bit of delusion. 


Main character energy is a moment of people doing mundane tasks and
Finding a spark of happiness. Your life can be straight out of a book or a film: you can be that confident woman, self-assured, or finding who you are right now. Your life is a film about you living your life in a way that makes you happy. Main character energy is a way of living that emphasizes romanticizing aspects of life, like riding the bus while listening to music or going to a cafe shop. This is the story of your life.

How to be the main character, not a supporting character "Flim by her"




You got the role of main character in your own life. Congratulations, you are playing the best character in the world, aka yourself. Being a main character has so many perks and benefits. This is your story, so make it a once-in-a-lifetime story that no one can compete with. Your life is what you make it, how you create it, and how you balance it. 


See your life as a feature film. This means embracing your life and what comes with it. Your life can be what you want it to be or you can pivot and change it. The main character is in control of their life and makes the decisions. Your life is a series of stages from school to college or university, then entering the workforce and financial independence as an adult. In between all of these stages, you have to live, learn and create balance. Your failures, depression, and mistakes make you who you are. 


Your story has so many chapters, and it gets better each time. Being the main character can help you become who you want to become. Your life makes you the main character and what you do matters. You are the protagonist of your own story. Writing your own story can be just you, being romantic, the grind of self-acceptance or whatever you want. Creating your own story is a journey of self-discovery. It's a series of turning the page every day and embracing what makes it every day. The main characters are always in control of every aspect of their control. The main characters make decisions that impact their lives. If you want to start a new chapter, start planning. Start small, then start building towards your dream. The main character's personality starts with a bit of delusion. 


Main character energy is a moment of people doing mundane tasks and
Finding a spark of happiness. Your life can be straight out of a book or a film: you can be that confident woman, self-assured, or finding who you are right now. Your life is a film about you living your life in a way that makes you happy. Main character energy is a way of living that emphasizes romanticizing aspects of life, like riding the bus while listening to music or going to a cafe shop. This is the story of your life.

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Girl Therapy

I can't come to the phone right now because I'm doing girl therapy. Some days, I need girl therapy and quality time with myself. 


Treat yourself with a manicure or pedicure.
Take a bubble bath or a nice hot shower with some calming music.
Read a book for an hour or more 
Put on a face mask.
Burn your favourite scented candle or diffuse some essential oils.
Meditate.
Go shopping.
Buy yourself a bouquet of fresh flowers 
Take a day off from work and do something fun!
Have a solo jam session
Order in dinner
Take a nice, long nap
Have a 30-minute stretching session
Binge-watch your favourite show or new show
Do nothing at all
Say no 
Pay for a massage
Listen to a podcast or audiobooks
Go to bed early or sleep in
Bake something sweet treat
Take yourself on a lunch date
Go for a drive
Journal. Write down a few things you are grateful for each day
Go on a nice hot girl walk
Have a stretching session
Plan a vacation for the next season 
Throw a movie night 
Throw a vision board party
Make your favourite beverage or pick it up at a local cafe
Do your hair and makeup for fun
Have a wine night
Pray or reflection 
Mental health day
Unplug from social media
Create your playlist
Declutter 10 items
Establish a healthy sleep routine
Look at positive affirmations on Pinterest
Do something crafty: colouring, knitting, sewing.
Go to the library or bookstore. Sit in a comfy chair and read.
Watch funny YouTube videos
Watch Lifestyle YouTube videos 
Unplug for the rest of the day—put my devices in another room
Walk around the fancy grocery store without a list. Buy some stuff just for fun.
Try out a new hobby
Join a yoga class
Cook breakfast for myself
Sing at the top of my lungs



FINAL NOTES 

Girl therapy is good for your soul. What is your vision of girl therapy? How long is your girl's therapy? Do you TikTok your girl therapy? 


Girl Therapy - self-care ideas, wellness rituals & everyday experiences

Girl Therapy

I can't come to the phone right now because I'm doing girl therapy. Some days, I need girl therapy and quality time with myself. 


Treat yourself with a manicure or pedicure.
Take a bubble bath or a nice hot shower with some calming music.
Read a book for an hour or more 
Put on a face mask.
Burn your favourite scented candle or diffuse some essential oils.
Meditate.
Go shopping.
Buy yourself a bouquet of fresh flowers 
Take a day off from work and do something fun!
Have a solo jam session
Order in dinner
Take a nice, long nap
Have a 30-minute stretching session
Binge-watch your favourite show or new show
Do nothing at all
Say no 
Pay for a massage
Listen to a podcast or audiobooks
Go to bed early or sleep in
Bake something sweet treat
Take yourself on a lunch date
Go for a drive
Journal. Write down a few things you are grateful for each day
Go on a nice hot girl walk
Have a stretching session
Plan a vacation for the next season 
Throw a movie night 
Throw a vision board party
Make your favourite beverage or pick it up at a local cafe
Do your hair and makeup for fun
Have a wine night
Pray or reflection 
Mental health day
Unplug from social media
Create your playlist
Declutter 10 items
Establish a healthy sleep routine
Look at positive affirmations on Pinterest
Do something crafty: colouring, knitting, sewing.
Go to the library or bookstore. Sit in a comfy chair and read.
Watch funny YouTube videos
Watch Lifestyle YouTube videos 
Unplug for the rest of the day—put my devices in another room
Walk around the fancy grocery store without a list. Buy some stuff just for fun.
Try out a new hobby
Join a yoga class
Cook breakfast for myself
Sing at the top of my lungs



FINAL NOTES 

Girl therapy is good for your soul. What is your vision of girl therapy? How long is your girl's therapy? Do you TikTok your girl therapy? 


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Being a disciplined person and taking it more seriously can lead to a breakthrough in your everyday life. Self-discipline is the motivation to achieve any goal in any aspect of your life. Self-discipline is intentionally choosing to pursue something better than yourself, and you do it despite factors such as distractions, obstacles, or unfavourable odds. Self-discipline is different from self-motivation or willpower, according to Mind Tools. The truth is doing work is the only way to achieve your goals in life. Self-discipline is having a clear vision and making daily tasks towards your vision. It's necessary to take small steps every day until you can make larger steps toward your goals. 


Self-discipline is an essential life skill to develop as an adult. I realized it was a superpower that keeps you accountable in your everyday life. When I developed a self-disciplined lifestyle, I started by making small steps in my daily life. My mindset was an important factor in making changes. I wanted to improve my lifestyle by eating healthier, exercising, writing and reading spicy novels. Developing my self-discipline habits is essential for growth. Clear vision is the only way to achieve your goals today. Write a detailed plan of basic non-negotiables, and financial and leisure needs. Determination, motivation and willpower are your best friends to achieve self-discipline. You are the only person who can make it happen for yourself.



How to be self-discipline 


Write out your goals in a detailed plan. It's recommended to have a notebook or a vision board to keep you updated on goals. Create an action plan with multiple steps. 


Practice prioritizing what is important to you. Focus on what inspires you as a person.

Use your determination to foul you.

 
Know your weaknesses and limit how they affect you. Turn your weaknesses into modified strengths.

 
Get others to hold you accountable when you are down. Having someone call you out will wake you up. 


Change your perspective on everything. Break out from the box and see what happens. The path will constantly change. 


Be mindful of the urges that you have. Break free from old habits. Sometimes you have to do things differently. 


Forgive yourself and move forward constantly. Keep expanding and keep making mistakes to learn from. Give yourself a day, then move on. 


Have a backup plan and embrace redirection. Things can change in a millisecond. Always have the end game on their mind.


Self-discipline quotes and affirmations


I enjoy working towards my goals
Being disciplined feels good
I can always count on myself
I follow through on my commitments
Make your goals challenging
Work on improving yourself every day
Form good habits
I am consistent and reliable
I Never give up
Massive success is waiting for me
Stay motivated
I am becoming my best self every day 
I control my actions by acting act 
I know I can do this
I trust the process

How to enter your discipline era + rules for a self-discipline life


Being a disciplined person and taking it more seriously can lead to a breakthrough in your everyday life. Self-discipline is the motivation to achieve any goal in any aspect of your life. Self-discipline is intentionally choosing to pursue something better than yourself, and you do it despite factors such as distractions, obstacles, or unfavourable odds. Self-discipline is different from self-motivation or willpower, according to Mind Tools. The truth is doing work is the only way to achieve your goals in life. Self-discipline is having a clear vision and making daily tasks towards your vision. It's necessary to take small steps every day until you can make larger steps toward your goals. 


Self-discipline is an essential life skill to develop as an adult. I realized it was a superpower that keeps you accountable in your everyday life. When I developed a self-disciplined lifestyle, I started by making small steps in my daily life. My mindset was an important factor in making changes. I wanted to improve my lifestyle by eating healthier, exercising, writing and reading spicy novels. Developing my self-discipline habits is essential for growth. Clear vision is the only way to achieve your goals today. Write a detailed plan of basic non-negotiables, and financial and leisure needs. Determination, motivation and willpower are your best friends to achieve self-discipline. You are the only person who can make it happen for yourself.



How to be self-discipline 


Write out your goals in a detailed plan. It's recommended to have a notebook or a vision board to keep you updated on goals. Create an action plan with multiple steps. 


Practice prioritizing what is important to you. Focus on what inspires you as a person.

Use your determination to foul you.

 
Know your weaknesses and limit how they affect you. Turn your weaknesses into modified strengths.

 
Get others to hold you accountable when you are down. Having someone call you out will wake you up. 


Change your perspective on everything. Break out from the box and see what happens. The path will constantly change. 


Be mindful of the urges that you have. Break free from old habits. Sometimes you have to do things differently. 


Forgive yourself and move forward constantly. Keep expanding and keep making mistakes to learn from. Give yourself a day, then move on. 


Have a backup plan and embrace redirection. Things can change in a millisecond. Always have the end game on their mind.


Self-discipline quotes and affirmations


I enjoy working towards my goals
Being disciplined feels good
I can always count on myself
I follow through on my commitments
Make your goals challenging
Work on improving yourself every day
Form good habits
I am consistent and reliable
I Never give up
Massive success is waiting for me
Stay motivated
I am becoming my best self every day 
I control my actions by acting act 
I know I can do this
I trust the process

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2024 RESET

Your life will require a reset. Life is chaotic and messy but also beautiful. Everyday life comes with many issues to be solved and tasks to be completed. It's important to have tools or plans to help you reset. These are the best ways to cope in today's society. A reset can help you achieve your goals in life or help change your goals in life.


MIND 

Therapy 
Journaling 
Reading from bed 
Limit screen time 
Listen to the self-improvement podcast 
Create a morning/ evening routine
Surround yourself with positive people 

BODY

Rest days
Balanced diet 
Daily stretching
Self-care practices
Take a shower
Consistent workouts / Consistent sleep schedule
Drink 1 litre of water daily



CAREER 

Set goals 
Educate yourself 
Study more 
Visual mood board 
Weekly & daily to-do list 
Let go of procrastination habits 
A healthy balance of work and life 


SPACE 

Declutter 
Deep clean 
Light a candle 
Make the bed in the morning






How to reset in 2024 featuring mind, body career & space ( A modern info guide)

2024 RESET

Your life will require a reset. Life is chaotic and messy but also beautiful. Everyday life comes with many issues to be solved and tasks to be completed. It's important to have tools or plans to help you reset. These are the best ways to cope in today's society. A reset can help you achieve your goals in life or help change your goals in life.


MIND 

Therapy 
Journaling 
Reading from bed 
Limit screen time 
Listen to the self-improvement podcast 
Create a morning/ evening routine
Surround yourself with positive people 

BODY

Rest days
Balanced diet 
Daily stretching
Self-care practices
Take a shower
Consistent workouts / Consistent sleep schedule
Drink 1 litre of water daily



CAREER 

Set goals 
Educate yourself 
Study more 
Visual mood board 
Weekly & daily to-do list 
Let go of procrastination habits 
A healthy balance of work and life 


SPACE 

Declutter 
Deep clean 
Light a candle 
Make the bed in the morning






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Loud budgeting is a new way of living in a costly economy and out-of-control inflation. Loud budgeting is more than trend budgeting. The trend is mentally and financially telling yourself or others you can't afford this. TikToker Lukas Battle is credited with creating the term loud budgeting and proclaiming that 2024 is all about loud budgeting. The trend has gained popularity across TikTok with others sharing their stories. His example is sorry, I can't go out to dinner. I’ve got $7 a day to live on after getting a dinner invitation. These examples are happening more and more to people in today's economy and the high cost of inflation. 

It's time to be honest about your financial situation and what you can afford in 2024. Loud budgeting encourages consumers to open up about how they spend their money and take pride in saying no to unnecessary purchases according to insider intelligence. Trying to keep up with people who are financially steady like friends or family doesn't work. Your habits and mindset affect your spending money. Say your reality out in public and celebrate the word no. Loud budgeting can help consumers take a stand against inflation. 2024 is about managing your low-wage income and surviving your life. Loud budgeting is for the average consumer who is struggling in today's society. 

The etiquette of loud budgeting: the new financial accountability Trend to adopt



Loud budgeting is a new way of living in a costly economy and out-of-control inflation. Loud budgeting is more than trend budgeting. The trend is mentally and financially telling yourself or others you can't afford this. TikToker Lukas Battle is credited with creating the term loud budgeting and proclaiming that 2024 is all about loud budgeting. The trend has gained popularity across TikTok with others sharing their stories. His example is sorry, I can't go out to dinner. I’ve got $7 a day to live on after getting a dinner invitation. These examples are happening more and more to people in today's economy and the high cost of inflation. 

It's time to be honest about your financial situation and what you can afford in 2024. Loud budgeting encourages consumers to open up about how they spend their money and take pride in saying no to unnecessary purchases according to insider intelligence. Trying to keep up with people who are financially steady like friends or family doesn't work. Your habits and mindset affect your spending money. Say your reality out in public and celebrate the word no. Loud budgeting can help consumers take a stand against inflation. 2024 is about managing your low-wage income and surviving your life. Loud budgeting is for the average consumer who is struggling in today's society. 

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Self-love is a Valentine's Day must-have. I believe in celebrating Valentine's Day as an independent woman. You can buy yourself flowers is the 2024 vibe every girl needs. Using affirmations is the best way to manifest all your desires. Because working on yourself and having a maintenance routine can help you achieve it. 


SELF-LOVE AFFIRMATIONS TO SAY OUT INTO THE UNIVERSE


I am worthy of love
I am proud of myself
I Am Enough
I Believe in You
I deserve the best
I am confident and strong
I am deeply in love
I am loved
I appreciate your help
I love and respect myself
I love your heart for
I put myself first
My beauty shines from within
My relationship fulfills me
You are Brave
You are filled with unspeakable joy
You are full of love
Your soul is beautiful
Greatly loved
I AM Creative
I am deserving of love
I Belong Here
I Can Do Hard Things
I deserve loving relationships

AFFIRMATIONS FOR ATTRACTING SELF-LOVE 


I am proud of the person I’m becoming.
I am exuding inner and outer beauty.
I give myself the unconditional love and care I deserve.
I have high standards for myself, and I don’t feel bad about it.
I deserve only the very best.
I have abundant love for both myself and the loved ones in my life.
I have so much to be grateful for and feel good about this Valentine’s Day.
I am so blessed.
I am the luckiest girl in the world.
I don’t need to justify myself to others.
I have so much love to give.
I am growing into the best version of myself each day.
I’ve come so far.
I am impressed by all the good qualities I possess. 


VALENTINE’S DAY AFFIRMATIONS FOR SINGLES WANTING SOME SELF-LOVE


Self-love is a Valentine's Day must-have. I believe in celebrating Valentine's Day as an independent woman. You can buy yourself flowers is the 2024 vibe every girl needs. Using affirmations is the best way to manifest all your desires. Because working on yourself and having a maintenance routine can help you achieve it. 


SELF-LOVE AFFIRMATIONS TO SAY OUT INTO THE UNIVERSE


I am worthy of love
I am proud of myself
I Am Enough
I Believe in You
I deserve the best
I am confident and strong
I am deeply in love
I am loved
I appreciate your help
I love and respect myself
I love your heart for
I put myself first
My beauty shines from within
My relationship fulfills me
You are Brave
You are filled with unspeakable joy
You are full of love
Your soul is beautiful
Greatly loved
I AM Creative
I am deserving of love
I Belong Here
I Can Do Hard Things
I deserve loving relationships

AFFIRMATIONS FOR ATTRACTING SELF-LOVE 


I am proud of the person I’m becoming.
I am exuding inner and outer beauty.
I give myself the unconditional love and care I deserve.
I have high standards for myself, and I don’t feel bad about it.
I deserve only the very best.
I have abundant love for both myself and the loved ones in my life.
I have so much to be grateful for and feel good about this Valentine’s Day.
I am so blessed.
I am the luckiest girl in the world.
I don’t need to justify myself to others.
I have so much love to give.
I am growing into the best version of myself each day.
I’ve come so far.
I am impressed by all the good qualities I possess. 


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Being single on Valentine's Day is a tradition to live by every February. I have never been in a relationship or been called a girlfriend. I'm older now, and I see myself as a woman who can buy your own flowers. I want to explore more while working on my career, financial situation and how I want to live my life. I'm choosing myself this year while letting someone in on the side. I want to focus on myself and have fun in between. I'm going to be my own Valentine until someone is worthy of the title.


How to spend Valentine's Day as a single woman


Host a Singles-Only Dinner Party


cook an amazing dinner
pop some bubbly
toast to your independence.


Enjoy a Beauty Treatment


haircut
blowout
mani-pedi
massage.


Stay In and Pamper Yourself


Take a long bath
Put on a face mask


Catch Up With Feel Good Movies 


Order pizza from your favourite place
binge-watch movies 


Explore a New Neighborhood


Walk up and down the streets
Grab a coffee at the hip café
Browse the racks of stores 


Avoid Social Media


Make V-day a phone-free day. 
Stalking your ex or crush or satitionship 
Be happy for yourself instead

Buy Yourself Flowers


Treat yourself to a beautiful arrangement of flowers 
Place your flowers near you 

NOTE TO SELF: Choosing yourself on Valentine's Day


Being single on Valentine's Day is a tradition to live by every February. I have never been in a relationship or been called a girlfriend. I'm older now, and I see myself as a woman who can buy your own flowers. I want to explore more while working on my career, financial situation and how I want to live my life. I'm choosing myself this year while letting someone in on the side. I want to focus on myself and have fun in between. I'm going to be my own Valentine until someone is worthy of the title.


How to spend Valentine's Day as a single woman


Host a Singles-Only Dinner Party


cook an amazing dinner
pop some bubbly
toast to your independence.


Enjoy a Beauty Treatment


haircut
blowout
mani-pedi
massage.


Stay In and Pamper Yourself


Take a long bath
Put on a face mask


Catch Up With Feel Good Movies 


Order pizza from your favourite place
binge-watch movies 


Explore a New Neighborhood


Walk up and down the streets
Grab a coffee at the hip café
Browse the racks of stores 


Avoid Social Media


Make V-day a phone-free day. 
Stalking your ex or crush or satitionship 
Be happy for yourself instead

Buy Yourself Flowers


Treat yourself to a beautiful arrangement of flowers 
Place your flowers near you 

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Every girl needs to put themself on a pedestal and love herself like it’s their religion. You need to preach every day that you are that girl. Embrace your inner romantic with feminine energy. Self-romance is a way of life. Being romantic for yourself starts with self-love, self-acceptance and serious self-care. Romance is a feeling or action to engage in a display of a romantic or love action. 


Romance is a concept of true love, but it can be designed for yourself. Self-romantic should be celebrated for all women. Give yourself a romantic treatment weekly. Being self-romantic is embracing your inner romantic. You deserve to be treated love and adored, but you need to treat yourself like that first. 


Self-romance can be a way to connect within yourself. This should be an opportunity to go deeper and figure out what you want. Every girl needs girl therapy as a romantic gesture for themselves. Being romantic is a way to give back to yourself. The truth is you’re going to be with yourself for the rest of your life, so be interested in yourself. Be a self-romantic. 


SELF- ROMANTIC GESTURES


Find your girl therapy
Work on your passion project
Buy yourself gifts 
Buy yourself a new outfit
Buy a coffee, hot chocolate, etc
Use love language on yourself
Buy some chocolates 
Buy yourself deserts
Cook something new
Make plans with your friends
Movie night at home 


ACTIVITIES 


Have a date with yourself - outside
Buy yourself a bouquet or pick yourself a bunch of flowers.
Go on a hike with yourself.
Cozy reading date 
Write yourself a love letter
Book a therapy session
Go see a movie alone
Go on a picnic
Run a romantic spa bath at home


INNER 


Accept yourself as you are
Set boundaries with yourself
Be curious and listen to yourself
Speak kindly to yourself
Ask yourself what you need
Be honest with yourself
Be kind to yourself
Develop positive habits
Express Yourself
Feel your feelings
Keep an accomplishments folder

Put yourself on a pedestal: How to be self-romantic



Every girl needs to put themself on a pedestal and love herself like it’s their religion. You need to preach every day that you are that girl. Embrace your inner romantic with feminine energy. Self-romance is a way of life. Being romantic for yourself starts with self-love, self-acceptance and serious self-care. Romance is a feeling or action to engage in a display of a romantic or love action. 


Romance is a concept of true love, but it can be designed for yourself. Self-romantic should be celebrated for all women. Give yourself a romantic treatment weekly. Being self-romantic is embracing your inner romantic. You deserve to be treated love and adored, but you need to treat yourself like that first. 


Self-romance can be a way to connect within yourself. This should be an opportunity to go deeper and figure out what you want. Every girl needs girl therapy as a romantic gesture for themselves. Being romantic is a way to give back to yourself. The truth is you’re going to be with yourself for the rest of your life, so be interested in yourself. Be a self-romantic. 


SELF- ROMANTIC GESTURES


Find your girl therapy
Work on your passion project
Buy yourself gifts 
Buy yourself a new outfit
Buy a coffee, hot chocolate, etc
Use love language on yourself
Buy some chocolates 
Buy yourself deserts
Cook something new
Make plans with your friends
Movie night at home 


ACTIVITIES 


Have a date with yourself - outside
Buy yourself a bouquet or pick yourself a bunch of flowers.
Go on a hike with yourself.
Cozy reading date 
Write yourself a love letter
Book a therapy session
Go see a movie alone
Go on a picnic
Run a romantic spa bath at home


INNER 


Accept yourself as you are
Set boundaries with yourself
Be curious and listen to yourself
Speak kindly to yourself
Ask yourself what you need
Be honest with yourself
Be kind to yourself
Develop positive habits
Express Yourself
Feel your feelings
Keep an accomplishments folder

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My relationship status is self-partnered and kind of seeing someone.  I have never been in a relationship before. I'm a 28-year-old woman living her best life mentally. My life needs so much work. I started dating after using an app called Chatme. 

BACK IN  2023 

I am choosing to live a different life than others. Being in a romantic relationship is not for me. Putting in the work for a relationship seems hard. I don't want to do it personally.  I am tired of dating online, and the same old insecurities come back. I wanted more but I don't know how. I wanted to see if there were more out there.

Dating yourself Challenge 

Solo Date Ideas and Activities


THE BASICS

Explore your hometown
Book a yoga or fitness class
Do a DIY solo spa day
Take a cooking class
Volunteer
Cook yourself dinner
Book a photoshoot
Go for a bike ride
Schedule a massage

THE CHANELLGE ON VALENTINE"S DAY 

Dress up and enjoy a meal at your favourite restaurant.
Go for a leisurely walk in a beautiful park.
Attend a museum show or gallery exhibition.
Buy yourself popcorn and attend a movie you want to see.
List your core values.
Throw a vision board party
Galentine's Day party at home - Potluck style
Spend money on your with a mini shopping spree

My relationship status update + dating yourself challenge

My relationship status is self-partnered and kind of seeing someone.  I have never been in a relationship before. I'm a 28-year-old woman living her best life mentally. My life needs so much work. I started dating after using an app called Chatme. 

BACK IN  2023 

I am choosing to live a different life than others. Being in a romantic relationship is not for me. Putting in the work for a relationship seems hard. I don't want to do it personally.  I am tired of dating online, and the same old insecurities come back. I wanted more but I don't know how. I wanted to see if there were more out there.

Dating yourself Challenge 

Solo Date Ideas and Activities


THE BASICS

Explore your hometown
Book a yoga or fitness class
Do a DIY solo spa day
Take a cooking class
Volunteer
Cook yourself dinner
Book a photoshoot
Go for a bike ride
Schedule a massage

THE CHANELLGE ON VALENTINE"S DAY 

Dress up and enjoy a meal at your favourite restaurant.
Go for a leisurely walk in a beautiful park.
Attend a museum show or gallery exhibition.
Buy yourself popcorn and attend a movie you want to see.
List your core values.
Throw a vision board party
Galentine's Day party at home - Potluck style
Spend money on your with a mini shopping spree

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According to Bree-Ann: a personal update 

My sexuality has changed since last year in a crazy year of self-discovery. I have been identified as an asexual woman since I was 22 years old. It was part of my life for so long, and now I’m not. I started to realize that I was having a sexual awakening. The label was how I would describe myself. I’m losing the label after five years. You could say mourn it and also learn so much about guys. I’m trying to pay the cool girl or down for whatever vibe and see how things go. I don’t mind playing those parts. I find guys so confusing, and the lack of communication is mind-blowing. My dating journey is me now not invested and moving on quickly if it fizzled out. I have been in a fizzled stage so many times now it didn’t phase me anymore. I’m usually causal serious about guys. Causal means no pressure and no investment. Serious is all about communicating with me, wants to keep this moving and easygoing. Dating as a 28-year-old is work. I want a relationship and a sexual one, too. I see myself with a book boyfriend for the rest of my life. The real boyfriend is my sidepiece. 


PS. The photo was my 22nd Birthday. 


Personal Update: I’m no longer asexual after 5 years + started dating for the first time ever


According to Bree-Ann: a personal update 

My sexuality has changed since last year in a crazy year of self-discovery. I have been identified as an asexual woman since I was 22 years old. It was part of my life for so long, and now I’m not. I started to realize that I was having a sexual awakening. The label was how I would describe myself. I’m losing the label after five years. You could say mourn it and also learn so much about guys. I’m trying to pay the cool girl or down for whatever vibe and see how things go. I don’t mind playing those parts. I find guys so confusing, and the lack of communication is mind-blowing. My dating journey is me now not invested and moving on quickly if it fizzled out. I have been in a fizzled stage so many times now it didn’t phase me anymore. I’m usually causal serious about guys. Causal means no pressure and no investment. Serious is all about communicating with me, wants to keep this moving and easygoing. Dating as a 28-year-old is work. I want a relationship and a sexual one, too. I see myself with a book boyfriend for the rest of my life. The real boyfriend is my sidepiece. 


PS. The photo was my 22nd Birthday. 


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