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Welcome to our 30's: a community club

I write about real-life lessons, late bloomers living, career pivots, growing older with intention, soft life living, self-care, main character living and all the wonderful things that make our 30s feel like coming home to ourselves.

A NOTE FOR MISSES

If you’ve ever felt like your twenties were a blur of trial and error, and your thirties are about finally figuring it out — while still feeling lost occasionally — then you’re in the right place. Women in their 30s can find support in our online content.

MISS WELL ENERGETIC

A sophisticated, well-rounded, and independent woman living in Toronto, Miss Well Energetic navigates life, self-care and love with effortlessness. Our philosophy is to convey a sense of luxury, a sense of fulfillment professionally and personally, with an emphasis on our wellbeing and the unique experience of being single at 30 years old. 
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COMING SOON........ My 30th Birthday Recap

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"30 in 30: A Challenge for My 30th year" 

OUR DATE: NOVEMER 17, 2025 to NOVEMBER 17, 2026

Full autonomy over everything
Living my everyday life
Believing in yourself without fear
Working on my 5 five year plan
Spending less on materialism
Investing in my joy
Live intentional
Change your cycle in a year 
Getting better with money
Saving money
Living under my means
Spend less on outgoing
Workout again
Build your dream wardrobe 
Build a foundation
Use your planner daily
Planner sessions
Eating healthy 
Being independent
Build your next thing
Spending time downtown Toronto 
It's time to focus on you
Don't meet new people
Let go of old dreams
Be frugal chic
Buying things I need only 
Invest in your mindset
Protect your Peace 
Being unbothered and unphased
NO Romantic relationships 
Manifest your visions  
Get know yourself 
Your version 30 year old 
Dress high end wardrobe
Live in your aesthetic daily 
No longer struggling like in your 20's 

"30 in 30" - My 30th Anniversary Challenge and I intend to focus on my plot


"30 in 30: A Challenge for My 30th year" 

OUR DATE: NOVEMER 17, 2025 to NOVEMBER 17, 2026

Full autonomy over everything
Living my everyday life
Believing in yourself without fear
Working on my 5 five year plan
Spending less on materialism
Investing in my joy
Live intentional
Change your cycle in a year 
Getting better with money
Saving money
Living under my means
Spend less on outgoing
Workout again
Build your dream wardrobe 
Build a foundation
Use your planner daily
Planner sessions
Eating healthy 
Being independent
Build your next thing
Spending time downtown Toronto 
It's time to focus on you
Don't meet new people
Let go of old dreams
Be frugal chic
Buying things I need only 
Invest in your mindset
Protect your Peace 
Being unbothered and unphased
NO Romantic relationships 
Manifest your visions  
Get know yourself 
Your version 30 year old 
Dress high end wardrobe
Live in your aesthetic daily 
No longer struggling like in your 20's 




An official vision board for Bree-Ann Gittens .....

a celebration & self-acceptance for being in my thirties. 

My hopes, goals, dreams and aspirations for 30 -39 years old. Let's manifest our dreams together and make shit happen every year for the rest of the decade. 

OUTLINE

Having a Career/ working 40 hours a week 
Dressing like woman I am 
Jewelry and shoe collection
Be an aesthetic 
Personal branding 
Making content on social media 
Building my all projects weekly
Live like a delusional woman
Don't be a Canadian
Make money 
Working and making money from passion projects 
Saving money 
Saving travel 
Living intentional 
Being frugal chic 
Being my own version of 30 
Building my foundation  
Using my planner 
Save money to move out 
Dream Wardrobe in my closet 
Live in your aesthetic 
Live your dream lifestyle
Date for marriage 
Dream boyfriend
Be yourself 
Single by choice lifestyle
Live independent/ protect my peace
Get your own car and license 
Save one year straight 
Live under your means
Move to city long term
No more struggling
Having it all on my terms 


ENDGAME: Having a my first child at 38 or over







"30: My Vision Board for the Thirties": "How I envision myself at the age of thirty and beyond"




An official vision board for Bree-Ann Gittens .....

a celebration & self-acceptance for being in my thirties. 

My hopes, goals, dreams and aspirations for 30 -39 years old. Let's manifest our dreams together and make shit happen every year for the rest of the decade. 

OUTLINE

Having a Career/ working 40 hours a week 
Dressing like woman I am 
Jewelry and shoe collection
Be an aesthetic 
Personal branding 
Making content on social media 
Building my all projects weekly
Live like a delusional woman
Don't be a Canadian
Make money 
Working and making money from passion projects 
Saving money 
Saving travel 
Living intentional 
Being frugal chic 
Being my own version of 30 
Building my foundation  
Using my planner 
Save money to move out 
Dream Wardrobe in my closet 
Live in your aesthetic 
Live your dream lifestyle
Date for marriage 
Dream boyfriend
Be yourself 
Single by choice lifestyle
Live independent/ protect my peace
Get your own car and license 
Save one year straight 
Live under your means
Move to city long term
No more struggling
Having it all on my terms 


ENDGAME: Having a my first child at 38 or over










Entering the Thirties: 

Health & Wellness

  • Prioritize preventative health:

  • Establish a consistent exercise routine:

  • Adopt healthy eating habits:

  • Optimize sleep and stress management:

  • Practice good skin care:

Career & Personal Growth

  • Clarify your career values and goals:

  • Invest in professional development:

  • Build a strong network:

  • Set boundaries:

  • Embrace new experiences:

Relationships & Social Life

  • Prioritize quality relationships:

  • Schedule dedicated "me time"

  • Nurture old and new hobbies:

  • Stay socially active:

  • Seek diverse perspectives:

Financial Well-being

  • Create a budget and track spending

  • Build an emergency fund

  • Learn about personal finance

New guidelines: Embracing My Thirties": The feeling of being lost, losing my old self, and having to start over




Entering the Thirties: 

Health & Wellness

  • Prioritize preventative health:

  • Establish a consistent exercise routine:

  • Adopt healthy eating habits:

  • Optimize sleep and stress management:

  • Practice good skin care:

Career & Personal Growth

  • Clarify your career values and goals:

  • Invest in professional development:

  • Build a strong network:

  • Set boundaries:

  • Embrace new experiences:

Relationships & Social Life

  • Prioritize quality relationships:

  • Schedule dedicated "me time"

  • Nurture old and new hobbies:

  • Stay socially active:

  • Seek diverse perspectives:

Financial Well-being

  • Create a budget and track spending

  • Build an emergency fund

  • Learn about personal finance

She's official 30.... Tying up my twenties 



Accepted 

Living a traditional lifestyle
No boyfriend
Not fixating on the future
Living my life
Fall in love with myself
Solo nights
No dama
Love my peace
Accepting me for who I am
Believing in myself
Working on 5 year plan

0 to 30 real quick

She's official 30.... Tying up my twenties 



Accepted 

Living a traditional lifestyle
No boyfriend
Not fixating on the future
Living my life
Fall in love with myself
Solo nights
No dama
Love my peace
Accepting me for who I am
Believing in myself
Working on 5 year plan




Season 30, episode 1

Dirty Thirty

I’m officially 30 years old and it’s been a year of growing, mornings and letting time move along. As hard as it was to say goodbye to my life, I'm ready to move on to the next chapter. There is no longer any trace of my old self. I had to get rid of her lifestyle, ideas, values, personality and opinions. Today, I am a new woman. She’s starting over and starting fresh herself. I am officially a thirty-something single woman who has no children, no career, no house, no romantic relationship, and is mentally content with that. I can’t wait to see how my life turns out in the next 9 years. I have goals but I don’t know what the future looks like anymore. 


Quick Notes for 30 


It’s okay not to have everything figured out 
Your best relationship is with yourself 
Stop chasing what society wants 
High standards only 
Dress like girl you are… rich inspired luxury minimalist woman 
You are responsible for your own life
Focus your energy on your plot 
It’s not in control so I don’t go off the rails 
Believe in yourself 
Live in your aesthetic 
You are ready that girl 
Fund your lifestyle everyday 
Speak up 
Say no 
Fall in love with yourself 
It’s okay to lose your shit for one day 
Date yourself like a real relationship
Rely on you 
Add enjoy daily
Letting go doesn’t mean giving up 
Change your plans 
Move on quick 
Work on your project 
Believe in luck 
Use manifestation

Unlocking level 30 - Just like that….. She’s 30….. it’s Bree-Ann Gittens Birthday anniversary…




Season 30, episode 1

Dirty Thirty

I’m officially 30 years old and it’s been a year of growing, mornings and letting time move along. As hard as it was to say goodbye to my life, I'm ready to move on to the next chapter. There is no longer any trace of my old self. I had to get rid of her lifestyle, ideas, values, personality and opinions. Today, I am a new woman. She’s starting over and starting fresh herself. I am officially a thirty-something single woman who has no children, no career, no house, no romantic relationship, and is mentally content with that. I can’t wait to see how my life turns out in the next 9 years. I have goals but I don’t know what the future looks like anymore. 


Quick Notes for 30 


It’s okay not to have everything figured out 
Your best relationship is with yourself 
Stop chasing what society wants 
High standards only 
Dress like girl you are… rich inspired luxury minimalist woman 
You are responsible for your own life
Focus your energy on your plot 
It’s not in control so I don’t go off the rails 
Believe in yourself 
Live in your aesthetic 
You are ready that girl 
Fund your lifestyle everyday 
Speak up 
Say no 
Fall in love with yourself 
It’s okay to lose your shit for one day 
Date yourself like a real relationship
Rely on you 
Add enjoy daily
Letting go doesn’t mean giving up 
Change your plans 
Move on quick 
Work on your project 
Believe in luck 
Use manifestation

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