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A chic 30-something's manifesto on intentional living

Welcome to our 30's: a community club

I write about real-life lessons, late bloomers living, career pivots, growing older with intention, soft life living, self-care, main character living and all the wonderful things that make our 30s feel like coming home to ourselves.

A NOTE FOR MISSES

If you’ve ever felt like your twenties were a blur of trial and error, and your thirties are about finally figuring it out — while still feeling lost occasionally — then you’re in the right place. Women in their 30s can find support in our online content.

MISS WELL ENERGETIC

A sophisticated, well-rounded, and independent woman living in Toronto, Miss Well Energetic navigates life, self-care and love with effortlessness. Our philosophy is to convey a sense of luxury, a sense of fulfillment professionally and personally, with an emphasis on our wellbeing and the unique experience of being single at 30 years old. 


The “I Choose Me” Movement

There is nothing more important than choosing me. It's time to put yourself first in a complex society and economy. The “I Choose Me” movement is about reclaiming your power, prioritizing your well-being, and making choices that align with your happiness and fulfillment. Today's women are empowered to work, travel or influence, can be a breadwinner, not rely on men and lives an untraditional lifestyle. Society is also changing due to women who lead unconventional lives. 

Our society continues to push the same narrative on women. Women have been conditioned to put others first—family, friends, relationships, and careers—while neglecting their own needs. Women's perceptions of living have changed due to social media. Living the way we used to doesn't cut it anymore. In western societies, women have the freedom to choose the life they want for themselves.

Every woman has the right to live her life the way she wants. The act of choosing yourself is the act of putting good into oneself. Society has changed so much and women are taking charge of their own lives. Any age is a good time to choose yourself. Make a change in your life by taking a chance on yourself. You have the right to prioritize yourself and your peace right now. Shift your mindset, set boundaries, and embody self-love in every aspect of your life. Choosing yourself is a process you'll never regret. 


1. Understanding the “I Choose Me” Mindset


At its core, choosing yourself is about:

 Self-Love: Accepting and appreciating yourself fully.

 Self-Worth: Knowing you deserve good things without guilt.

 Self-Trust: Making decisions that honor your values and needs.

 Self-Preservation: Protecting your peace, energy, and emotional well-being.


Key Shift: Stop seeking external validation and start validating yourself.


2. How to Start Choosing Yourself


A. Break Free from People-Pleasing

Recognize when you’re saying “yes” out of obligation.

Understand that “no” is a complete sentence.

Set boundaries without feeling guilty.


B. Put Your Needs First Without Guilt

Ask yourself daily: What do I need today?

Prioritize rest, self-care, and your dreams over obligations that drain you.

Let go of the fear of disappointing others.


C. Remove the Fear of Being Selfish

Choosing yourself is not selfish; it’s self-respect.

You cannot pour from an empty cup—when you prioritize yourself, you show up better for others.


3. How to Apply “I Choose Me” in Different Areas of Life


A. In Relationships (Romantic, Family, Friends)

 Stop over-giving to people who don’t reciprocate.

 Distance yourself from toxic relationships that drain your energy.

 Choose partnerships that uplift you rather than ones that make you feel less than.

 Learn to walk away when something no longer serves your growth.


B. In Your Career & Money

Don’t settle for jobs that drain you just because they’re “safe.”

Ask for raises and opportunities that reflect your worth.

Build financial independence so you never have to rely on someone else for security.

Create a career that aligns with your purpose rather than societal expectations.


C. In Your Mental & Emotional Health

Prioritize therapy, journaling, or mindfulness to process emotions.

Protect your energy—if something feels off, step away.

Release guilt and shame from past choices—you are allowed to evolve.


D. In Your Daily Life & Habits

Start your mornings with habits that center you (e.g., meditation, reading, movement).

Spend time doing things that bring you joy without needing a reason.

Surround yourself with people who inspire and support you.

Live a lifestyle that aligns with your true desires, not societal pressure.


4. How to Stay Committed to Choosing Yourself

 Check in with yourself weekly—Are you making decisions that honor you?

 Let go of guilt when prioritizing yourself—others will adjust.

 Make self-care a daily ritual, not an occasional treat.

 Trust your intuition—if something doesn’t feel right, don’t ignore it.

 Celebrate your growth—Choosing yourself isn’t always easy, but it’s worth it.


5. Mantras & Affirmations for the “I Choose Me” Lifestyle

 I am worthy of my own love and care.

 Choosing myself is not selfish; it is necessary.

 I release guilt for prioritizing my happiness.

 I attract relationships and opportunities that align with my highest good.

 I am allowed to say no without explaining myself.


Final Thought: You Are the Main Character


Choosing yourself means stepping into your power and deciding that your happiness, well-being, and dreams are just as important as anyone else’s. The more you embrace this mindset, the more your life will align with the love, peace, and success you deserve.


It’s time to stop waiting for permission and start claiming the life that feels right for you. Choose you—every single day.

DONE-,,,,,,,,,,,,, It's the "I Choose Me" Movement: What Every Woman Needs to Know About Prioritizing Herself



The “I Choose Me” Movement

There is nothing more important than choosing me. It's time to put yourself first in a complex society and economy. The “I Choose Me” movement is about reclaiming your power, prioritizing your well-being, and making choices that align with your happiness and fulfillment. Today's women are empowered to work, travel or influence, can be a breadwinner, not rely on men and lives an untraditional lifestyle. Society is also changing due to women who lead unconventional lives. 

Our society continues to push the same narrative on women. Women have been conditioned to put others first—family, friends, relationships, and careers—while neglecting their own needs. Women's perceptions of living have changed due to social media. Living the way we used to doesn't cut it anymore. In western societies, women have the freedom to choose the life they want for themselves.

Every woman has the right to live her life the way she wants. The act of choosing yourself is the act of putting good into oneself. Society has changed so much and women are taking charge of their own lives. Any age is a good time to choose yourself. Make a change in your life by taking a chance on yourself. You have the right to prioritize yourself and your peace right now. Shift your mindset, set boundaries, and embody self-love in every aspect of your life. Choosing yourself is a process you'll never regret. 


1. Understanding the “I Choose Me” Mindset


At its core, choosing yourself is about:

 Self-Love: Accepting and appreciating yourself fully.

 Self-Worth: Knowing you deserve good things without guilt.

 Self-Trust: Making decisions that honor your values and needs.

 Self-Preservation: Protecting your peace, energy, and emotional well-being.


Key Shift: Stop seeking external validation and start validating yourself.


2. How to Start Choosing Yourself


A. Break Free from People-Pleasing

Recognize when you’re saying “yes” out of obligation.

Understand that “no” is a complete sentence.

Set boundaries without feeling guilty.


B. Put Your Needs First Without Guilt

Ask yourself daily: What do I need today?

Prioritize rest, self-care, and your dreams over obligations that drain you.

Let go of the fear of disappointing others.


C. Remove the Fear of Being Selfish

Choosing yourself is not selfish; it’s self-respect.

You cannot pour from an empty cup—when you prioritize yourself, you show up better for others.


3. How to Apply “I Choose Me” in Different Areas of Life


A. In Relationships (Romantic, Family, Friends)

 Stop over-giving to people who don’t reciprocate.

 Distance yourself from toxic relationships that drain your energy.

 Choose partnerships that uplift you rather than ones that make you feel less than.

 Learn to walk away when something no longer serves your growth.


B. In Your Career & Money

Don’t settle for jobs that drain you just because they’re “safe.”

Ask for raises and opportunities that reflect your worth.

Build financial independence so you never have to rely on someone else for security.

Create a career that aligns with your purpose rather than societal expectations.


C. In Your Mental & Emotional Health

Prioritize therapy, journaling, or mindfulness to process emotions.

Protect your energy—if something feels off, step away.

Release guilt and shame from past choices—you are allowed to evolve.


D. In Your Daily Life & Habits

Start your mornings with habits that center you (e.g., meditation, reading, movement).

Spend time doing things that bring you joy without needing a reason.

Surround yourself with people who inspire and support you.

Live a lifestyle that aligns with your true desires, not societal pressure.


4. How to Stay Committed to Choosing Yourself

 Check in with yourself weekly—Are you making decisions that honor you?

 Let go of guilt when prioritizing yourself—others will adjust.

 Make self-care a daily ritual, not an occasional treat.

 Trust your intuition—if something doesn’t feel right, don’t ignore it.

 Celebrate your growth—Choosing yourself isn’t always easy, but it’s worth it.


5. Mantras & Affirmations for the “I Choose Me” Lifestyle

 I am worthy of my own love and care.

 Choosing myself is not selfish; it is necessary.

 I release guilt for prioritizing my happiness.

 I attract relationships and opportunities that align with my highest good.

 I am allowed to say no without explaining myself.


Final Thought: You Are the Main Character


Choosing yourself means stepping into your power and deciding that your happiness, well-being, and dreams are just as important as anyone else’s. The more you embrace this mindset, the more your life will align with the love, peace, and success you deserve.


It’s time to stop waiting for permission and start claiming the life that feels right for you. Choose you—every single day.



🌿 ANALOG WELLNESS FOR WOMEN: A COMPLETE, IN-DEPTH GUIDE


✨ What Is Analog Wellness?


Analog wellness is the opposite of overstimulation and digital overload.

It is the practice of living slow, soft, present, embodied, and in tune with your senses and environment.


It includes:

 Rituals without screens

 Real-life experiences over digital escapes

 Nervous system support

 Feminine, gentle, intentional routines

 Slower mornings, deeper evenings, calmer days

 Creativity, embodiment, tactile pleasure, and presence


It is the core of living a soft, elegant, grown-woman life.


🌸 THE ANALOG WELLNESS FRAMEWORK FOR WOMEN


This guide is broken into 8 pillars, each with detailed practices and examples.


1. 🕊 RITUALS & ROUTINES (Soft Structure for Your Day)


Morning Analog Ritual


No phone for first 30–60 minutes.

Replace digital stimulation with slow embodiment.


Steps:

1. Open curtains, breathe fresh air

2. Drink warm water with lemon

3. Light a candle or incense

4. Stretch for 3–5 minutes

5. Journal:

How do I feel today?

What energy do I want to hold?

What is one gentle priority?

6. Make your bed with intention


This creates a grounded feminine energy.


Evening Analog Ritual


Your nervous system detox.


Elements:

Sky sunset check

Low lighting

Bath/shower ritual

Body oiling

Tea ceremony

Paper journaling

Reading instead of scrolling


2. 📚 ANALOG MINDSCAPE (Journaling, Reflection & Deep Thought)


Paper Journaling Styles


Use physical notebooks to reconnect with your internal world.

 Morning pages (stream of consciousness)

 Shadow work (what triggered you and why)

 Manifestation scripting

 Elegance and self-worth reflections

 30-year-old woman identity building


Analog Mental Habits

Read physical books

Keep a poetry or quotes notebook

Practice 10 minutes of stillness daily

Write letters (to yourself, to your future self)


Why it matters:


Analog thinking develops clarity, emotional intelligence, confidence, and self-awareness.


3. 🌿 ANALOG BODY (Movement, Physical Sensuality, Nervous System Care)


Slow, Feminine Movement


Replace screen-led workouts with:

Pilates flows

Gentle yoga

Intuitive stretching

Long walks

Dance in your living room

Grounding outside with bare feet (weather permitting)


Body Connection Rituals

Dry brushing

Self-massage

Full-body moisturizing

Scalp oiling

Breathwork before bed

Limiting synthetic fragrances, focusing on essential oils


Nervous System Regulation


Analog wellness is deeply tied to calming your body:

Warm baths

Weighted blankets

Rest between tasks

Gentle music

No multitasking


Your feminine energy thrives in a regulated body.


4. 🕯 SENSORY LIVING (Engaging All Five Senses)


Smell:


Essential oils, real perfumes, candles, fresh flowers.


Touch:


Soft fabrics, cozy blankets, warm baths, fresh sheets.


Sight:


Decluttered spaces, natural light, analog decor, handwritten notes.


Sound:


Vinyl records, soft playlists, nature sounds, silence.


Taste:


Slow meals, hot drinks, intentional eating without screens.


Analog Sensory Ritual Example:

Soft jazz

Candle lit

Slow tea ritual

Hand cream

Reading a book

= nervous system melts.


5. 🧿 ANALOG BEAUTY (Simple, Natural, Elegant Self-Care)


Skin

Minimal but high-quality routine

Slow application

Gua sha and facial massage

Weekly masks outside the bathroom

Less makeup on regular days

More emphasis on glow and hydration


Hair

Scalp oiling

Gentle heat styling

Natural textures

Silk scarves + pillowcases

Weekly deep conditioning


Body

Exfoliation

Body oils

Soft fragrances

Lingerie for yourself, not others


Analog beauty = slow, intentional, sensory, feminine.


6. 🪴 ANALOG HOME (Creating a Soothing Sanctuary)


Themes:

Minimal screens

Calm lighting

Clean surfaces

Plants

Cozy fabrics

Soft colors

Intentional decor

Quiet luxury touches on a budget


Analog Home Rituals

Make tea instead of energy drinks

Play soft music instead of browsing TikTok

Handwrite to-do lists

Use timers instead of phone alarms

Have a “slow corner”: chair, blanket, candle, book


Your home becomes your wellness hub.


7. 🍵 ANALOG SOCIAL LIFE (Relationships Rooted in Presence)


Analog Ways to Connect

Phone-free coffee or brunch dates

Long walks with friends

Handwritten birthday cards

Hosting slow dinners with candles + music

Listening more, talking slower

Presence over performance

Practicing elegant communication


Analog Romance

Slow kisses

Eye contact

Sharing meals

Practical gestures

Quality time without interruptions


Over time, analog connection feels richer, safer, more intimate.


8. 🌙 ANALOG LIFESTYLE CHOICES (The “Soft Slow Woman” Identity)


You move slower.


You don’t rush. You don’t chase.


You choose presence.


Not scrolling. Not comparing.


You cultivate elegance.


Thoughtful, feminine, unbothered.


You value simple pleasure.


Tea. Books. Walks. Warm light.


You live in cycles, not stress.


Seasonal rituals, morning rhythms, nighttime softness.


You shape your world intentionally.


You curate your habits, space, energy.


🌼 THE ANALOG WELLNESS DAILY BLUEPRINT


AM

Wake up naturally or gently

Make bed

Warm water

Analog journaling

Slow movement

Breakfast without screens


MIDDAY

Phone-check windows only

10-minute outside break

Eat lunch slowly

One analog moment (reading, stretching, walk)


PM

Sunset check

Bath or long shower

Body oiling

Tea

Reading

Slow music

Dim lights

30-minute wind-down before sleep


🌙 ANALOG WELLNESS CHALLENGE FOR WOMEN (optional)


Week 1: No-phone mornings


Week 2: No screens after 8pm


Week 3: Walk or move daily


Week 4: Slow meals + no scrolling


Week 5: Full analog evenings (2 days)


Week 6: Create one analog ritual that becomes permanent



Welcome to the era of Analog wellness: pulls you out of digital overwhelm, and reconnects you with your body, mind, senses, and real life.



🌿 ANALOG WELLNESS FOR WOMEN: A COMPLETE, IN-DEPTH GUIDE


✨ What Is Analog Wellness?


Analog wellness is the opposite of overstimulation and digital overload.

It is the practice of living slow, soft, present, embodied, and in tune with your senses and environment.


It includes:

 Rituals without screens

 Real-life experiences over digital escapes

 Nervous system support

 Feminine, gentle, intentional routines

 Slower mornings, deeper evenings, calmer days

 Creativity, embodiment, tactile pleasure, and presence


It is the core of living a soft, elegant, grown-woman life.


🌸 THE ANALOG WELLNESS FRAMEWORK FOR WOMEN


This guide is broken into 8 pillars, each with detailed practices and examples.


1. 🕊 RITUALS & ROUTINES (Soft Structure for Your Day)


Morning Analog Ritual


No phone for first 30–60 minutes.

Replace digital stimulation with slow embodiment.


Steps:

1. Open curtains, breathe fresh air

2. Drink warm water with lemon

3. Light a candle or incense

4. Stretch for 3–5 minutes

5. Journal:

How do I feel today?

What energy do I want to hold?

What is one gentle priority?

6. Make your bed with intention


This creates a grounded feminine energy.


Evening Analog Ritual


Your nervous system detox.


Elements:

Sky sunset check

Low lighting

Bath/shower ritual

Body oiling

Tea ceremony

Paper journaling

Reading instead of scrolling


2. 📚 ANALOG MINDSCAPE (Journaling, Reflection & Deep Thought)


Paper Journaling Styles


Use physical notebooks to reconnect with your internal world.

 Morning pages (stream of consciousness)

 Shadow work (what triggered you and why)

 Manifestation scripting

 Elegance and self-worth reflections

 30-year-old woman identity building


Analog Mental Habits

Read physical books

Keep a poetry or quotes notebook

Practice 10 minutes of stillness daily

Write letters (to yourself, to your future self)


Why it matters:


Analog thinking develops clarity, emotional intelligence, confidence, and self-awareness.


3. 🌿 ANALOG BODY (Movement, Physical Sensuality, Nervous System Care)


Slow, Feminine Movement


Replace screen-led workouts with:

Pilates flows

Gentle yoga

Intuitive stretching

Long walks

Dance in your living room

Grounding outside with bare feet (weather permitting)


Body Connection Rituals

Dry brushing

Self-massage

Full-body moisturizing

Scalp oiling

Breathwork before bed

Limiting synthetic fragrances, focusing on essential oils


Nervous System Regulation


Analog wellness is deeply tied to calming your body:

Warm baths

Weighted blankets

Rest between tasks

Gentle music

No multitasking


Your feminine energy thrives in a regulated body.


4. 🕯 SENSORY LIVING (Engaging All Five Senses)


Smell:


Essential oils, real perfumes, candles, fresh flowers.


Touch:


Soft fabrics, cozy blankets, warm baths, fresh sheets.


Sight:


Decluttered spaces, natural light, analog decor, handwritten notes.


Sound:


Vinyl records, soft playlists, nature sounds, silence.


Taste:


Slow meals, hot drinks, intentional eating without screens.


Analog Sensory Ritual Example:

Soft jazz

Candle lit

Slow tea ritual

Hand cream

Reading a book

= nervous system melts.


5. 🧿 ANALOG BEAUTY (Simple, Natural, Elegant Self-Care)


Skin

Minimal but high-quality routine

Slow application

Gua sha and facial massage

Weekly masks outside the bathroom

Less makeup on regular days

More emphasis on glow and hydration


Hair

Scalp oiling

Gentle heat styling

Natural textures

Silk scarves + pillowcases

Weekly deep conditioning


Body

Exfoliation

Body oils

Soft fragrances

Lingerie for yourself, not others


Analog beauty = slow, intentional, sensory, feminine.


6. 🪴 ANALOG HOME (Creating a Soothing Sanctuary)


Themes:

Minimal screens

Calm lighting

Clean surfaces

Plants

Cozy fabrics

Soft colors

Intentional decor

Quiet luxury touches on a budget


Analog Home Rituals

Make tea instead of energy drinks

Play soft music instead of browsing TikTok

Handwrite to-do lists

Use timers instead of phone alarms

Have a “slow corner”: chair, blanket, candle, book


Your home becomes your wellness hub.


7. 🍵 ANALOG SOCIAL LIFE (Relationships Rooted in Presence)


Analog Ways to Connect

Phone-free coffee or brunch dates

Long walks with friends

Handwritten birthday cards

Hosting slow dinners with candles + music

Listening more, talking slower

Presence over performance

Practicing elegant communication


Analog Romance

Slow kisses

Eye contact

Sharing meals

Practical gestures

Quality time without interruptions


Over time, analog connection feels richer, safer, more intimate.


8. 🌙 ANALOG LIFESTYLE CHOICES (The “Soft Slow Woman” Identity)


You move slower.


You don’t rush. You don’t chase.


You choose presence.


Not scrolling. Not comparing.


You cultivate elegance.


Thoughtful, feminine, unbothered.


You value simple pleasure.


Tea. Books. Walks. Warm light.


You live in cycles, not stress.


Seasonal rituals, morning rhythms, nighttime softness.


You shape your world intentionally.


You curate your habits, space, energy.


🌼 THE ANALOG WELLNESS DAILY BLUEPRINT


AM

Wake up naturally or gently

Make bed

Warm water

Analog journaling

Slow movement

Breakfast without screens


MIDDAY

Phone-check windows only

10-minute outside break

Eat lunch slowly

One analog moment (reading, stretching, walk)


PM

Sunset check

Bath or long shower

Body oiling

Tea

Reading

Slow music

Dim lights

30-minute wind-down before sleep


🌙 ANALOG WELLNESS CHALLENGE FOR WOMEN (optional)


Week 1: No-phone mornings


Week 2: No screens after 8pm


Week 3: Walk or move daily


Week 4: Slow meals + no scrolling


Week 5: Full analog evenings (2 days)


Week 6: Create one analog ritual that becomes permanent



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