The path to winning the game after "flop era"

The Flop eras are the worst and it refers to a period of failure, lack of success, or inability to function or thrive. The Flop era is an off-handed Gen Z joke. Flopping through adulthood is real. When things don't work out or you are left behind, we all feel it. Today's world is not the last generation world. It's not easy when you fail at something you put time and energy into. Setbacks are painful. Achieving anything will come with many flops. This doesn't define you as a person. What truly matters is getting up and not stopping. Feeling discouraged and hopeless won't get you anywhere. Flopping is a process and a step towards future results. Living in the flop era needs to be recognized.

A STEP BY STEP PLAN TO GETTING OUT OF FLOP ERA

Identify the problem 

Understand the problem you are facing
Figure out what's not working
Find a solution that you can be happy with - short term or long term
You can't always win

Build resilience 

Allow yourself to feel sadness and process what is happening
Embrace life, situations, people when things don't go as planned
Remember that setbacks are part of the process
Create an action plan to overcome challenges, obstacles or situations.
Set small goals and celebrate each win

Create a plan

Create a brainstorm for solo dates - TV and take notes
Make detailed realistic goals, ideas and outcomes.
Start creating experiments and trying new things out
Take action every single day
Consider making large or small sacrifices in your life 
Be selfish and focus on yourself

Seek support

Don't hesitate to talk to someone you trust when you're struggling 
Join a group or community of similar-minded people 

Take action 

Take care of your mental health
Create your personal system to make things happen
Invest in your daily routine to keep you grounded
Make small movements daily
Change your perspective on things
Use redirection as a guide
Keep trying and don't give up
Results take time and you have the time