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Your financial literacy needs to be updated as you enter your rich girl era. The economy is costing women so much money and the high cost of living and low wages are affecting everyone. By creating new rules and having a plan, rich girls invest their way to success. Being financial independent means working on your financial situation. In my twenty-something years, I've struggled with financial literacy because I'm not financially successful. Having rules and clear financial goals can help me realize the benefits of the Rich girl persona. Your entire financial life depends on your mindset and your discipline. I found these rules on Pinterest. A priority for rich girls is always to educate themselves and come up with new ways to improve their financial standing. Financial wellness is always being improved by rich girls. They are constantly educating themselves.
Rich financial girl era
Financial habit #1: Regularly review and update your financial plan
Financial habit #2: Establish financial goals that are beneficial for your future
Financial habit #3: Create a budget and use it to guide your spending
Financial habit #4: Find passive income to improve your income
Financial habit #5: Build an emergency fund to protect your assets
Financial habit #6: Pay off credit cards in full
Financial habit #7: Bring food from home / Cut down on take out
Financial habit #8: Talk openly about money with your friends
Rich Girl's money rules
Pay yourself first
Learn how to invest
Give every dollar a job
Spend less than you earn
Have a plan & set goals.
If you have it, don't flaunt it
Keep your finances organized
It's a game. Learn how it works
Always have an emergency fund
Always make money work for you
Learn how to make passively
Use it to solve a problem
Don't use credit if you don't have cash
It's not what you make, it's what you keep
Bree-Ann Gittens is a financial researcher and will not be giving examples.
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Thursday, March 28, 2024
- Rich girls financials
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How to enter the rich girl financial era and Rich Girl's money rules
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Your financial literacy needs to be updated as you enter your rich girl era. The economy is costing women so much money and the high cost of living and low wages are affecting everyone. By creating new rules and having a plan, rich girls invest their way to success. Being financial independent means working on your financial situation. In my twenty-something years, I've struggled with financial literacy because I'm not financially successful. Having rules and clear financial goals can help me realize the benefits of the Rich girl persona. Your entire financial life depends on your mindset and your discipline. I found these rules on Pinterest. A priority for rich girls is always to educate themselves and come up with new ways to improve their financial standing. Financial wellness is always being improved by rich girls. They are constantly educating themselves.
Rich financial girl era
Financial habit #1: Regularly review and update your financial plan
Financial habit #2: Establish financial goals that are beneficial for your future
Financial habit #3: Create a budget and use it to guide your spending
Financial habit #4: Find passive income to improve your income
Financial habit #5: Build an emergency fund to protect your assets
Financial habit #6: Pay off credit cards in full
Financial habit #7: Bring food from home / Cut down on take out
Financial habit #8: Talk openly about money with your friends
Rich Girl's money rules
Pay yourself first
Learn how to invest
Give every dollar a job
Spend less than you earn
Have a plan & set goals.
If you have it, don't flaunt it
Keep your finances organized
It's a game. Learn how it works
Always have an emergency fund
Always make money work for you
Learn how to make passively
Use it to solve a problem
Don't use credit if you don't have cash
It's not what you make, it's what you keep
Bree-Ann Gittens is a financial researcher and will not be giving examples.
It may take a lifetime to get to know yourself as an individual. Who you are is more than your name, age, background, hobbies and job. Who you are to your core in a journey of personal devlopment. We all have done a search to answer these questions and explore the foundation of who we are. To find yourself, you'll need to go on a continuous journey, not look for a destination. Knowing who you are takes decades of choices, learning and experiences. The more we learn and participate, the more involved we become.
The process of discovering who you are involves a series of tasks as you work on yourself. Your work will help you discover who you are. Start by reflecting on yourself. It's time to be alone and reflect on your life. Doing work is defining what you need or want, making changes, working on your mindset, being alone and getting things done. Who you are will come out of doing your work. At the end you will know that you are willing to take or the standards you created.
The experiences you have can shape you into the person you are today. Change comes from growth and experience things in our lives. It involves making choices, making mistakes, failing, and experiencing drama and confusion. Experiencing things and learning along the way is part of the experience. Your personal experiences can teach you a lot. What you like or don't like is so essential to know. The foundation of who you are depends on it. As older we get the more confidence we become the more comfortable we get in our skin.
Through your experiences, I'll find you in the way you need to see coming. Self-reflecting can lead to a break through in who you are meant to be. I find my experiences are so unique and they help me realize that an amazing person puts myself on pedestal. Who I am is how you characterize yourself. I am a twenty-something who is passionate, creative, optimistic, thoughtful, loyal, and way too nice. The way you describe and use them in your daily life defines you.
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Tuesday, March 26, 2024
- Her official opinion
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THE IMPORTANCE OF KNOWING WHO YOU ARE + Finding yourself through your journey
It may take a lifetime to get to know yourself as an individual. Who you are is more than your name, age, background, hobbies and job. Who you are to your core in a journey of personal devlopment. We all have done a search to answer these questions and explore the foundation of who we are. To find yourself, you'll need to go on a continuous journey, not look for a destination. Knowing who you are takes decades of choices, learning and experiences. The more we learn and participate, the more involved we become.
The process of discovering who you are involves a series of tasks as you work on yourself. Your work will help you discover who you are. Start by reflecting on yourself. It's time to be alone and reflect on your life. Doing work is defining what you need or want, making changes, working on your mindset, being alone and getting things done. Who you are will come out of doing your work. At the end you will know that you are willing to take or the standards you created.
The experiences you have can shape you into the person you are today. Change comes from growth and experience things in our lives. It involves making choices, making mistakes, failing, and experiencing drama and confusion. Experiencing things and learning along the way is part of the experience. Your personal experiences can teach you a lot. What you like or don't like is so essential to know. The foundation of who you are depends on it. As older we get the more confidence we become the more comfortable we get in our skin.
Through your experiences, I'll find you in the way you need to see coming. Self-reflecting can lead to a break through in who you are meant to be. I find my experiences are so unique and they help me realize that an amazing person puts myself on pedestal. Who I am is how you characterize yourself. I am a twenty-something who is passionate, creative, optimistic, thoughtful, loyal, and way too nice. The way you describe and use them in your daily life defines you.
Have you ever cringed over someone else's words or actions? What you are feeling is 100% real and do not second guess it.
Your experience is the ICK. I have experienced the ick more than once. Every single guy I talk to online or in person has given me ick and it doesn't anywhere. My experience with ice has me aware of certain actions and behaviours in romantic partners and strangers, too. It's so easy to get sick from modern-day dating and meeting new people. The ick is a way of expressing disgust. A ick is a modern term describing the feeling about a cringe moment or experience that left you feeling that way. The Ick is a relatable term if you are in modern-day dating, friendship, family or meeting someone new. Ick is most common in romantic relationships.
Christie Kederian, a psychologist, relationship expert, and LMFT explains the term: “The ick is this feeling that you get in the early stages of a dating relationship — you could also feel it later on, but most often in the early stages — where you get disgusted or turned off by some mannerism or action that the person you’re dating does,” she says according to Today.
I believe the source of the ick is often minor behaviour that turns you completely off. Ick is a mini dealbreaker that has red flags that are personal and surprising at the moment. The ick is irreversible once you see it coming. You see the behaviour more and more. Your standards rise when you see the ick.
Talking about sex before you know the person, poor personal hygiene, rudeness to wait staff, discussing past relationships, lying, not holding a conversation, or not following up with you are all bad examples. Major personal icks are not putting in enough effort on dates, not planning dates, asking you to pay for the dates and acting differently in real life after texting.
As soon as you start dating someone new and get to know them, you enter a love bubble. After a few dates, an ick can happen at any time. The ick is a dealbreaker, and people part ways. You can't ignore the ick because it will resurface. You can't continue with a person when the problem is too big.
Can a relationship survive the ick? It depends on the relationship and whether this is worth fighting for. When the ick comes up in your romantic relationship that is when you reflect and communicate with your partner. This is your decision to make rather than to stay or leave. The ick can be the end or beginning of new standards and moving on.
The stages of getting the
ick in the moment
1. When you get the ick - you think about it
2. You don't address the issue in the moment
3. You keep thinking about it and you don't know what to do
4. You get to move on from the issue
5. You can't recover from the ick
Stages of an ick
1. It's not right - you scream in your head
2. You feel it in your gut
3.You feel weird about the situation and you stop thinking about it
4. Your disgusted
5. You turned off
6. Talking and ranting about it a few times
7. The decision
8. You can't get over it
9. You mourn it
10. Moving on
11. Let it go of the situation
12. You may think about time to time
13. It's best thing that happened to you and you dodge a bullet
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Friday, March 22, 2024
- Her official opinion
- No comments
Documenting the endless number of icks: What do you do when you get the ick? + the ick explained
Have you ever cringed over someone else's words or actions? What you are feeling is 100% real and do not second guess it.
Your experience is the ICK. I have experienced the ick more than once. Every single guy I talk to online or in person has given me ick and it doesn't anywhere. My experience with ice has me aware of certain actions and behaviours in romantic partners and strangers, too. It's so easy to get sick from modern-day dating and meeting new people. The ick is a way of expressing disgust. A ick is a modern term describing the feeling about a cringe moment or experience that left you feeling that way. The Ick is a relatable term if you are in modern-day dating, friendship, family or meeting someone new. Ick is most common in romantic relationships.
Christie Kederian, a psychologist, relationship expert, and LMFT explains the term: “The ick is this feeling that you get in the early stages of a dating relationship — you could also feel it later on, but most often in the early stages — where you get disgusted or turned off by some mannerism or action that the person you’re dating does,” she says according to Today.
I believe the source of the ick is often minor behaviour that turns you completely off. Ick is a mini dealbreaker that has red flags that are personal and surprising at the moment. The ick is irreversible once you see it coming. You see the behaviour more and more. Your standards rise when you see the ick.
Talking about sex before you know the person, poor personal hygiene, rudeness to wait staff, discussing past relationships, lying, not holding a conversation, or not following up with you are all bad examples. Major personal icks are not putting in enough effort on dates, not planning dates, asking you to pay for the dates and acting differently in real life after texting.
As soon as you start dating someone new and get to know them, you enter a love bubble. After a few dates, an ick can happen at any time. The ick is a dealbreaker, and people part ways. You can't ignore the ick because it will resurface. You can't continue with a person when the problem is too big.
Can a relationship survive the ick? It depends on the relationship and whether this is worth fighting for. When the ick comes up in your romantic relationship that is when you reflect and communicate with your partner. This is your decision to make rather than to stay or leave. The ick can be the end or beginning of new standards and moving on.
The stages of getting the
ick in the moment
1. When you get the ick - you think about it
2. You don't address the issue in the moment
3. You keep thinking about it and you don't know what to do
4. You get to move on from the issue
5. You can't recover from the ick
Stages of an ick
1. It's not right - you scream in your head
2. You feel it in your gut
3.You feel weird about the situation and you stop thinking about it
4. Your disgusted
5. You turned off
6. Talking and ranting about it a few times
7. The decision
8. You can't get over it
9. You mourn it
10. Moving on
11. Let it go of the situation
12. You may think about time to time
13. It's best thing that happened to you and you dodge a bullet
Tap into your dark feminine era
In contrast to the girly feminine concept, the dark feminine is misunderstood. The dark feminine is rebirth, female empowerment, shadow work, and owning your power every day. The dark feminine represents a new kind of feminism. By doing showdaw work, women tap into their inner strength and empower themselves. Dark feminine era promotes a profound energy that is different from today's norms. Women are in control of their lives and make decisions based on what is in their best interests. In the realm of feminism, women are empowered to use social media as a way to learn and get inspiration for themselves.
Women use it to unlock dark feminine energy. According to TikTokers, these are submissive, cute personas such as Marilyn Monroe, who utilized this power to manipulate men (a bit like "the sexy baby"). Dark feminine energy, on the other hand, is about being dominant, assertive and most importantly, sultry. It’s about setting boundaries, saying no to people and manifesting success according to Vice.
Dark feminine energy goes beyond trends. It offers peace of mind that you are fully in control of yourself. Women should be fully stepping into the dark feminine while living in a patriarchal society. In her dark feminine era, a woman can be passionate, self-insured, emotionally intense, or seem like a 'bitch,' but she is also protecting herself, and she's unbothered. As a result of dark feminine energy, women reject societal expectations. Women have a right to be unapologetic about themselves and express themselves and not listen to other people.
A step-by-step guide “Dark Feminine” according to Pinterest
Dreaming big and making my dream achievable
Putting effort into my appearance and feeling good
No romantic relationship for a while
Taking myself on dates
Setting so many more boundaries
Meditating everyday
Cutting off that l no longer aligns with
Romanticizing my life
Say it as it is
Getting extra picky with people around me
Reinventing myself
Daily journaling/ shadow work
Focusing on myself and making money
Assertiveness
Celibacy
Weekly self-love and self-care practices
A guide to unlocking “Dark Feminine Energy”
Boundaries
Standards
Unapologetically
Say no
Prioritizes self
Self-worth
Self- esteem
Strong
Seductive
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Friday, March 22, 2024
- Feminine energy
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Entering the Dark feminine era: a reminder for women to reclaim their dark energy
Tap into your dark feminine era
In contrast to the girly feminine concept, the dark feminine is misunderstood. The dark feminine is rebirth, female empowerment, shadow work, and owning your power every day. The dark feminine represents a new kind of feminism. By doing showdaw work, women tap into their inner strength and empower themselves. Dark feminine era promotes a profound energy that is different from today's norms. Women are in control of their lives and make decisions based on what is in their best interests. In the realm of feminism, women are empowered to use social media as a way to learn and get inspiration for themselves.
Women use it to unlock dark feminine energy. According to TikTokers, these are submissive, cute personas such as Marilyn Monroe, who utilized this power to manipulate men (a bit like "the sexy baby"). Dark feminine energy, on the other hand, is about being dominant, assertive and most importantly, sultry. It’s about setting boundaries, saying no to people and manifesting success according to Vice.
Dark feminine energy goes beyond trends. It offers peace of mind that you are fully in control of yourself. Women should be fully stepping into the dark feminine while living in a patriarchal society. In her dark feminine era, a woman can be passionate, self-insured, emotionally intense, or seem like a 'bitch,' but she is also protecting herself, and she's unbothered. As a result of dark feminine energy, women reject societal expectations. Women have a right to be unapologetic about themselves and express themselves and not listen to other people.
A step-by-step guide “Dark Feminine” according to Pinterest
Dreaming big and making my dream achievable
Putting effort into my appearance and feeling good
No romantic relationship for a while
Taking myself on dates
Setting so many more boundaries
Meditating everyday
Cutting off that l no longer aligns with
Romanticizing my life
Say it as it is
Getting extra picky with people around me
Reinventing myself
Daily journaling/ shadow work
Focusing on myself and making money
Assertiveness
Celibacy
Weekly self-love and self-care practices
A guide to unlocking “Dark Feminine Energy”
Boundaries
Standards
Unapologetically
Say no
Prioritizes self
Self-worth
Self- esteem
Strong
Seductive
SPRING GIRLIES ARE GETTING READY FOR A NEW SEASON
Spring will arrive on Tuesday, March 19, 2024. Self-care is the theme for this year. Spring is the time to change and reset your life after winter. We live in such a different economy than we did a year ago. The new season is here, and you need to reset creatively and healthily. I enter this season with a list of things to complete. This year is about getting my life together before becoming 30 years old. Spring ushers in a new beginning.
SPRING GIRLS PREP
Routines rituals
Wake up early
Create new workouts - yoga, dance or YouTube videos
Drink more water - update water tumbler or bottle
New iced Coffee drinks
Practice gratitude with a new journal
Create a new Music playlist
Read a book - romance, self-help and audiobooks
Creating a daily goal setting
Spend time outside - get more sunlight
Healthy habits
Shower routine - the everything shower, detox bath
Go to bed early
Prioritize more hours to sleep
Have a list of affirmations
Deep breathing exercises
Plan your day- tasks, goals and
Meal planning
Avoid stress
Mindfulness
Eat less meat and dairy
Eating Fresh
Go for a hot girl walk
Build healthy relationships
Learning something new for fun
Practice meditation at home
Cleaning
Make the Bed
Tidy Up as You Go
Wipe Down Surfaces
Tackle Laundry Each Day
Categorize Papers
Clean your home desk
Donate Regularly
Clean your skincare and makeup essentials
Buy new containers
Clean Your Fridge Weekly
Buy new home supplies or decor
Clean Up After Cooking
Have a Place for Everything
Organization
Make a detailed to-do list.
Create action with steps to archive your goals
Incorporate your to-do list into your life
Use a planner or calendar to manage your schedule
Create a bullet journal spread in your planner - Pinterest has many ideas
Develop systems and routines to help you in your daily routine
Stop procrastinating on everything
Clean and declutter regularly
Update your supplies or essentials if needed - Amazon
Every Sunday is a Sunday reset
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Tuesday, March 19, 2024
- Just Girlie Things
- No comments
SPRING PREP - spring to-do list/ with getting into a routine, healthy habits, cleaning, and organizing
SPRING GIRLIES ARE GETTING READY FOR A NEW SEASON
Spring will arrive on Tuesday, March 19, 2024. Self-care is the theme for this year. Spring is the time to change and reset your life after winter. We live in such a different economy than we did a year ago. The new season is here, and you need to reset creatively and healthily. I enter this season with a list of things to complete. This year is about getting my life together before becoming 30 years old. Spring ushers in a new beginning.
SPRING GIRLS PREP
Routines rituals
Wake up early
Create new workouts - yoga, dance or YouTube videos
Drink more water - update water tumbler or bottle
New iced Coffee drinks
Practice gratitude with a new journal
Create a new Music playlist
Read a book - romance, self-help and audiobooks
Creating a daily goal setting
Spend time outside - get more sunlight
Healthy habits
Shower routine - the everything shower, detox bath
Go to bed early
Prioritize more hours to sleep
Have a list of affirmations
Deep breathing exercises
Plan your day- tasks, goals and
Meal planning
Avoid stress
Mindfulness
Eat less meat and dairy
Eating Fresh
Go for a hot girl walk
Build healthy relationships
Learning something new for fun
Practice meditation at home
Cleaning
Make the Bed
Tidy Up as You Go
Wipe Down Surfaces
Tackle Laundry Each Day
Categorize Papers
Clean your home desk
Donate Regularly
Clean your skincare and makeup essentials
Buy new containers
Clean Your Fridge Weekly
Buy new home supplies or decor
Clean Up After Cooking
Have a Place for Everything
Organization
Make a detailed to-do list.
Create action with steps to archive your goals
Incorporate your to-do list into your life
Use a planner or calendar to manage your schedule
Create a bullet journal spread in your planner - Pinterest has many ideas
Develop systems and routines to help you in your daily routine
Stop procrastinating on everything
Clean and declutter regularly
Update your supplies or essentials if needed - Amazon
Every Sunday is a Sunday reset
GIRL
CODE
Your
official copy of girl code.
Wait Until Your Friend is In Their House Before You Drive Away
Tell A Girl Her Outfit Has a Malfunction or If It Looks Bad
Be The Amazing Photographer You Wish You Had
Never Go After Your Friends Crush or Ex
If You Arrive Together, You Leave Together
Always Check In on Your Friend While They’re on a First Date
Never Let Your Girlfriend Go to The Washroom Alone in Public
Rescue Any Girl You See Being Annoyed By a Creepy Guy
Boost Every Woman’s Confidence
Tell a Girl If Her Man Is Cheating On Her
Help Your Girl Send Angry Texts To Her Man
Always Take Her Side… Regardless of Who She’s Up Against
Assist in the Change Room At All Times When Shopping
Always Seek Permission Before Hitting on Your Friend’s Relatives
If Your BFF’s Torn About Getting Something They Deserve, Give Her Guidance
If You Have an Extra Tampon, Help a Sister Out
Always Be There When Your Friend Needs You After a Break-up
Do Your BFF’s Parents Proud And Protect Her
Be a Good Wingwoman
Continually Insult Your Bestie to Remind Her You Love Her
If You Suspect That Another Woman Is Hanging Around Your Friend’s Man, Tell Your Friend
Defend Your Friends In Their Absence
Never Ditch Your Friends For a Boy
Always Keep Their Secrets Safe
Never Abandon A Drunk Friend
Speak Up If You’re Concerned About Your Friend’s New Friend’s Intentions
If Someone Breaks Your Friend’s Heart, Kill Them
Even if You Don’t Agree With Your Best Friend’s Relationship, Stand By Her
Don’t Forget To Remind Your Friend of Your Bond When You Need To
Be Any Girls Security Guard When Trouble Arises
Always Show Your Friends That You Appreciate Them Don’t Be Afraid to Vent to
Your Bestie And Let Them Vent to You
If Your Best Friend Has a Reason to Hate Someone, So Do You
Celebrate Their Successes Like They’re Your Own
Don’t Let a Girl Walk Into a Stall Without Toilet Paper
Grab Your Friend’s Phone When Necessary
RESOURCE HUB CONTENT The 36 Unwritten Rules Of Girl Code All Women Need To Live By (readunwritten.com)
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Monday, March 18, 2024
- IT GIRL ENERGY
- No comments
Girl Code: the unwritten rules all women need to know and need to live by
GIRL
CODE
Your
official copy of girl code.
Wait Until Your Friend is In Their House Before You Drive Away
Tell A Girl Her Outfit Has a Malfunction or If It Looks Bad
Be The Amazing Photographer You Wish You Had
Never Go After Your Friends Crush or Ex
If You Arrive Together, You Leave Together
Always Check In on Your Friend While They’re on a First Date
Never Let Your Girlfriend Go to The Washroom Alone in Public
Rescue Any Girl You See Being Annoyed By a Creepy Guy
Boost Every Woman’s Confidence
Tell a Girl If Her Man Is Cheating On Her
Help Your Girl Send Angry Texts To Her Man
Always Take Her Side… Regardless of Who She’s Up Against
Assist in the Change Room At All Times When Shopping
Always Seek Permission Before Hitting on Your Friend’s Relatives
If Your BFF’s Torn About Getting Something They Deserve, Give Her Guidance
If You Have an Extra Tampon, Help a Sister Out
Always Be There When Your Friend Needs You After a Break-up
Do Your BFF’s Parents Proud And Protect Her
Be a Good Wingwoman
Continually Insult Your Bestie to Remind Her You Love Her
If You Suspect That Another Woman Is Hanging Around Your Friend’s Man, Tell Your Friend
Defend Your Friends In Their Absence
Never Ditch Your Friends For a Boy
Always Keep Their Secrets Safe
Never Abandon A Drunk Friend
Speak Up If You’re Concerned About Your Friend’s New Friend’s Intentions
If Someone Breaks Your Friend’s Heart, Kill Them
Even if You Don’t Agree With Your Best Friend’s Relationship, Stand By Her
Don’t Forget To Remind Your Friend of Your Bond When You Need To
Be Any Girls Security Guard When Trouble Arises
Always Show Your Friends That You Appreciate Them Don’t Be Afraid to Vent to
Your Bestie And Let Them Vent to You
If Your Best Friend Has a Reason to Hate Someone, So Do You
Celebrate Their Successes Like They’re Your Own
Don’t Let a Girl Walk Into a Stall Without Toilet Paper
Grab Your Friend’s Phone When Necessary
RESOURCE HUB CONTENT The 36 Unwritten Rules Of Girl Code All Women Need To Live By (readunwritten.com)