Single women do set rules and standards for themselves. A single woman is not looking for the concept that you need to be complete by finding significant other. Movies and television are not real life or close to reality. Finding yourself when you are single is an essential part of female life. Taking of yourself only happens when you focus on yourself than others. It's not selfish to want to make yourself a priority. Single women set the tone for creating new rules. 


RULE ONE: MAKE YOUR SCHEDULE

"Make the plan that makes you feel pleasure or guilty pleasure. Your time is always yours to make. Find a routine that helps you be the best version of yourself. You are following the path that is personal to you. Your schedule reflects everything you do right now. Add your needs than want to your schedule." 


RULE TWO: TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF 

"We as women need to be taking care of ourselves. We need to prioritize our self-care in our daily lifestyle. Ensure you are sleeping, being active, eating properly and caring for your mental state. Taking care of you means being your best self every day." 


RULE THREE: CHOOSE TO DATE—OR NOT

"You can go out on a date or stay in with yourself. It's your choice if you want to entertain a person. Being your badass self is all about decisions you feel in your gut." 

RULE FOUR: BE SELFISH & SMART 

"Spending money on yourself and your needs or wants is okay. I believe the term: I want it, and I got it is a life choice. You don't have to spend money on something so expensive but remember you must survive every month. Create long-term goals and invest in saving for future needs or wants." 

RULE FIVE: VALUE OF INDEPENDENCE

"Being independent is empowering in today's society. Independence can help increase your self-value and self-esteem. As women, we do a lot of things all by ourselves. Becoming independent is a lifetime goal. Being Independent does involve being financially stable and emotionally available. Being sociable, focusing on your career and having personal independence is also important. We have more educated women who are having children later in life. Today's women know their values and standards of living their best life in 2023. Being independent can change how you rate yourself and value yourself."