I'm a black 29 year old career less untraditional girlie from Canada, and I'm not ashamed to admit that following ............


  1. I don’t have any friends
  2. I have never had a boyfriend
  3. I don’t have a career that makes me money 
  4. I have been passed over multiple times 
  5. I’m okay just being myself 
  6. I don’t follow society rules 
  7. I have invested in myself 
  8. I put myself first 
  9. I have multiple times at blogging, networking, job searching and YouTube 
  10. Spending a lot of alone 
  11. I don’t have a social life 
  12. My best conversations are with myself 
  13. I live life based on manifesting methods 
  14. Self-improvement saved my life 
  15. I learned to process on my own emotions with myself and through therapy
  16. The life I want is never going to happen 
  17. Living my life year by year. I create list of two things to complete 
  18. Getting dumped has destroyed my willing to be open
  19. I’m jaded when it comes to dating 
  20. I only rely on myself not others
  21. I prefer a soft life, slow life, more downtime
  22. Working on my own projects is my happiness 
  23. I’m not your typical black girl and not black cultured
  24. I don’t feel like I’m black enough 
  25. I think differently than average person 
  26. I like aesthetic white girls like
  27. I have never been in love 
  28. I don’t feel normal 
  29. I don’t feel like I’m not good enough 
  30. I can’t fund my lifestyle everyday 
  31. I don’t like or use makeup 
  32. It takes me while to process information 
  33. Love recreating stories in my head 
  34. Talking to myself being me happiness 
  35. I have a learning disability