Dating Wrap 2024 edition

My first serious dating experience came in 2024 after never really considering it before. While I was in college and two years post-graduation, I did not look at any guys. I decided not to make the same excuse and take dating more seriously. I mean not online but in the real world. I went on my first date ever and acted like it wasn't my first. It was nice for five weeks and two icks later, he was over it. The moment I received the text message that dumped me, I had my life turned upside down. Several months after I let my mind go crazy, I talked to a few guys. Each guy I talked to it got worse and worse. I was ready to give it a shot because I didn't want him to stop me from finding someone. I got ghosted after two messages which were when I realized men were not worth my energy and time. I’m no longer dating men. I’m almost 30 why should I deal with drama in the last 12 months of being in my twenties? No boys, no drama and more energy for myself.


Dates - 5 total 


person- name: Urgen - five dates 


Casual date - practically experience 


1 - Brain - multiple times 

(Not serious) 


Talking stages 

10 - Facebook dating 


Dumps 


1 - Urgen


Missed Connection 


1 - Mo 


Ghosted 


3 guys 

31 years old - 40 years old- 30 years old 


Heartbreak 


1 - Urgen


Hookups 


2 people - one to forget and other just bad. 


Current Status: Single by choice (SINGLE)


What’s next: focusing on myself and things l want physically. No year two of dating.  


Future guy vibe: high quality man not mid-range men. Don’t date at all.