ROMCOM FEMALE CHARACTER ENERGY 

There is something special about watching a rom-com movie especially in 2000's. Fall in love with yourself aka the best character ever. The formula for rom coms goes like this: girl is independent or messy and goes through a journey leading to your destiny. A romantic relationship can develop during this journey or it may not. No matter if you are single or not, accepting and loving yourself is equally important. Being the main protagonist in your own world is a beautiful thing. As the main character you’re supposed to live your dream life. This is not about the love interest, it’s about finding yourself or building your dream girl. Any girl can romanticize their everyday life. 

Living my life like I'm Golden is the theme song for 2000's era (This is for all women of all races) 

Living life as the main character in a 2000s rom-com is all about embracing the lighthearted, whimsical, and slightly exaggerated charm of that era. Here's how you can channel that vibe:


1. Iconic Wardrobe

   - *Signature Style: Think flirty dresses, cute cardigans, low-rise jeans, and fun accessories like berets, headbands, and oversized sunglasses.

   - Colors and Patterns: Embrace bright colors, floral prints, and mix-matching patterns that scream playful and confident.

2. Romanticize Everyday Moments

   - Morning Rituals: Start your day with a feel-good playlist (think The Cardigans or Natasha Bedingfield), sip coffee from a cute mug, and journal your thoughts.

   - Small Adventures: Turn grocery shopping or walking your dog into a mini-adventure by exploring new streets or imagining you're in a scene from a movie.

3. Confidence and Charm

   - Be Playful: Have a witty comeback ready, smile often, and don't take yourself too seriously.

   - Own Your Quirks: Whether it’s being clumsy, having a quirky hobby, or a unique laugh, embrace what makes you unique.

4. The Perfect Rom-Com Meet-Cute

   - Be Open to Serendipity: Whether it’s bumping into someone at a bookstore or accidentally spilling coffee on a cute stranger, be open to unexpected encounters.

   - Small Gestures: Leave little notes for people, send sweet texts, or surprise someone with a small gift—these are all rom-com-worthy moves.

5. Surround Yourself with a Fun Friend Group

   - Diverse Characters: Have a group of friends who each bring something different to the table—think the quirky best friend, the fashionista, and the voice of reason.

   - Regular Catch-ups: Plan regular meet-ups at cute cafés or have movie nights where you watch—you guessed it—2000s rom-coms.

 6. Live in a Dreamy Setting

   - Decorate Your Space: Make your home feel like the set of a rom-com. Think fairy lights, cozy blankets, vintage posters, and lots of plants.

   - Explore Your City: Pretend you're new in town and visit those dreamy spots—botanical gardens, bookstores, quaint coffee shops.

7. Stay Optimistic

   - Believe in Happy Endings: Maintain a positive outlook on life, even when things go wrong—after all, it’s not over until the happy ending!

   - Follow Your Heart: Don’t be afraid to pursue your passions, whether it’s a new hobby, career path, or love interest.


Your own 2000s rom-com is playing, where every day has the potential for a little magic, self-love and figuring this out for yourself.