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The Netflix hit series Bridgerton has made us all interested in living the lifestyle and being a proper lady. Bridgerton ladies are 100% themselves and break free from society's rules. Being a lady begins with setting high standards for yourself. Women are the balls, the belles, the decorum of their own lives. Put the Duke aside and concentrate on your life as a lady. The lady cares about her appearance and works hard to maintain a good reputation. The behaviour of a lady is her acting like herself and not being bothered by others. A lady wants to deserve the princess treatment every day. Your appearance, attitude and personality highlight the fact that you are a lady.

LADY LESSONS FROM REGENCY- ERA 

To act like a Bridgerton in real life, you can adopt the manners, style, and etiquette of Regency-era England, as depicted in the series. Here are some tips:


1. Dress the Part: Wear clothing inspired by the early 19th century, such as high-waisted dresses for women and tailored suits for men. Optional for elegant fabrics and subtle colors.

2. Manners and Etiquette: Practice polite conversation, address people formally, and use proper table manners. Saying "please," "thank you," and other courteous phrases is essential.

3. Social Graces: Engage in activities like dancing, playing musical instruments, and attending social gatherings. Learn traditional dances like the waltz and quadrille.

4. Reading and Education: Be well-read and knowledgeable about literature, art, and history. Engage in intellectual conversations and cultivate a sense of curiosity.

5. Poise and Posture: Maintain good posture, walk gracefully, and carry yourself with confidence. Avoid slouching or making abrupt movements.

6. Hospitality: Be a gracious host or guest. Offer refreshments, engage in pleasant conversation, and show genuine interest in others.


MODERN DAY LADY LESSONS 

HERE ARE THE 20 CHARACTERISTICS OF A LADY: 

1. A lady is not mean to other women. A lady is not a mean girl. She ignores women who are spiteful to her and goes about her life on her own terms.

2. A lady refrains from using vulgar language. She understands that the language you use represents your mind and heart.

3. She dresses tastefully. The key here is to dress with dignity. It does not have to cost much; it’s more important to find clothes that fit you right.

4. A lady is well-read and intelligent.

5. A lady speaks with confidence and talks clearly for others to understand her. Avoid saying “hi,” or “um” as this will make you look unrefined.

6. She is mindful of people’s time and is punctual.

7.  She says “No, thank you” or “Yes, please.”

8. She only gives compliments when she sincerely means it. Insecurities are easier to read than we think.

9. A lady offers her help and is considerate to those around her.

10. When she receives an invitation, she promptly accepts or declines. 

11. When she receives help or hospitality from someone she sends a thank you note to display her gratitude.

12. Every time she attends a gathering she never arrives empty-handed. She brings a small hostess gift.

13. A lady is a woman of her word. She has a respectable reputation based on her consistency. She keeps her promises and obligations. She’s known amongst her friends and family as someone dependable.

14. A lady knows her worth and knows she deserves to be pursued.

15. A lady is not petty. She is not jealous of the woman with whom her husband is chatting. A lady knows she’s competing only with herself.

16. They’re dignified. Oh sure, they get upset and angry, everyone does, but ladies stay calm. They respond to the issue and not the person.

17. A lady is a woman of substance. She is talented in all areas and inspires other women. 

18. Being a lady and acting lady-like does not mean that you are entitled or snobby. Practice having a heart of gratitude.

19. A lady actively listens and engages in conversations.

20. A lady seeks the truth and does not believe everything she hears. She defends the truth even when it isn’t popular. She has a strong sense of right and wrong.


ROURECSES HUB CONTENT: 20 Qualities Of A Lady — The Pemberley (thepemberleygroup.com)