That girl has become more than a TikTok trend. Becoming a better version of yourself is what this generation of women are thriving for everyday. Anybody can be that girl who has her life together – she wakes up, takes charge, exercises weekly, maintains a journal, keeps her room clean, and radiates her main character energy. That girl focuses on self-fulfillment, creating effective life routines and creating an aesthetic everyday. That girl lifestyle is all about getting up early, makes her bed, fuels her body and expressing her gratitude, reads every day, and works hard to achieve her dreams according to Grazia. That girl can be customed to your daily life or goals. It can become toxic, but remember who you are and listen to your body. That girl aesthetic is designed to improve your life, not take over your life. That girl is building yourself into a girl you always versioned. Investing in yourself has many perks for your well-being. Do the work and create a list to help you become that girl. 




WHAT EVERY THAT GIRL DOES "THAT GIRL BASIC"


She has her life together -           work in process

Eats aesthetic meals -                 cooking your own meals 

Peak Fitness -                             working out weekly 

Reads for pleasure -                    she reads the latest books 

Perfect self-care routine -            takes a hour for herself everyday 

 

ACHIEVE THAT GIRL AESTHETIC 

 

Check-in with yourself with your emotions & thoughts 

Exercise weekly and move your body every day

Hydrate, hydrate, hydrate, drink your water 

Nourish your body with healthy meals

Balance meals with guilty pleasure food

Wear what makes you feel good

Invest in self-improvement

Pamper yourself regularly with self-care, reset days & solo date nights 

Focus on your morning routine

Organization your home & personal space 

Continue to educate yourself

Start journaling 

 

EVERY THAT GIRL NEEDS 

 

Embrace a positive attitude on eveyday life 

Don't take things personally 

Make time for yourself

Start small, realistic goals 

Change your mindset, read motivational quotes 

Make self-care a priority 

Listen to music & podcast 

Dress up everyday

Eat healthy or balanced meals 

Take care of your skin, hair, nails and body

Get a physical planner or a digital planner 

Stay on top of what you need to achieve 



The ULTIMATE GUIDE to becoming THAT girl + tips & advice to add to your lifestyle!

That girl has become more than a TikTok trend. Becoming a better version of yourself is what this generation of women are thriving for everyday. Anybody can be that girl who has her life together – she wakes up, takes charge, exercises weekly, maintains a journal, keeps her room clean, and radiates her main character energy. That girl focuses on self-fulfillment, creating effective life routines and creating an aesthetic everyday. That girl lifestyle is all about getting up early, makes her bed, fuels her body and expressing her gratitude, reads every day, and works hard to achieve her dreams according to Grazia. That girl can be customed to your daily life or goals. It can become toxic, but remember who you are and listen to your body. That girl aesthetic is designed to improve your life, not take over your life. That girl is building yourself into a girl you always versioned. Investing in yourself has many perks for your well-being. Do the work and create a list to help you become that girl. 




WHAT EVERY THAT GIRL DOES "THAT GIRL BASIC"


She has her life together -           work in process

Eats aesthetic meals -                 cooking your own meals 

Peak Fitness -                             working out weekly 

Reads for pleasure -                    she reads the latest books 

Perfect self-care routine -            takes a hour for herself everyday 

 

ACHIEVE THAT GIRL AESTHETIC 

 

Check-in with yourself with your emotions & thoughts 

Exercise weekly and move your body every day

Hydrate, hydrate, hydrate, drink your water 

Nourish your body with healthy meals

Balance meals with guilty pleasure food

Wear what makes you feel good

Invest in self-improvement

Pamper yourself regularly with self-care, reset days & solo date nights 

Focus on your morning routine

Organization your home & personal space 

Continue to educate yourself

Start journaling 

 

EVERY THAT GIRL NEEDS 

 

Embrace a positive attitude on eveyday life 

Don't take things personally 

Make time for yourself

Start small, realistic goals 

Change your mindset, read motivational quotes 

Make self-care a priority 

Listen to music & podcast 

Dress up everyday

Eat healthy or balanced meals 

Take care of your skin, hair, nails and body

Get a physical planner or a digital planner 

Stay on top of what you need to achieve 



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RAINY COZY DAYS CHECKLIST 


Make popcorn and have a marathon with your favourite movie or TV series 

Pamper yourself: bubble bath, pedicure, manicure, face scrub, etc.

 Take time to draw, colour, paint, carve or whatever you enjoy doing.

Focus on your skin: do a face mask, massage your face with a roller

Hang out on Pinterest and learn about things you’ve always wanted to know more about.

Start writing a short story or book

Try new yoga or a new workout

Meditate and listen to soothing music

Grab some dough and make a pizza

Make a mood playlist

Read a book and drink a cup of coffee or tea

Indulge in a guilty pleasure: online shopping, your favourite TV show, snack or activity

Make your favourite comfort food

Watch vlogs on YouTube

Catch up on TikTok

Learn the technical skills of drawing (Pinterest has many how-to’s)




Rainy days, cozy vibes & things to do


RAINY COZY DAYS CHECKLIST 


Make popcorn and have a marathon with your favourite movie or TV series 

Pamper yourself: bubble bath, pedicure, manicure, face scrub, etc.

 Take time to draw, colour, paint, carve or whatever you enjoy doing.

Focus on your skin: do a face mask, massage your face with a roller

Hang out on Pinterest and learn about things you’ve always wanted to know more about.

Start writing a short story or book

Try new yoga or a new workout

Meditate and listen to soothing music

Grab some dough and make a pizza

Make a mood playlist

Read a book and drink a cup of coffee or tea

Indulge in a guilty pleasure: online shopping, your favourite TV show, snack or activity

Make your favourite comfort food

Watch vlogs on YouTube

Catch up on TikTok

Learn the technical skills of drawing (Pinterest has many how-to’s)




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Spring, Spicy & Sweet reading list 


Spring is officially here, and I'm still catching up on the spicy romance novels I missed. Let's stock up on physical books or digital ones on Kindle. Books are much-needed relaxation for consumers. I love reading spicy novels written by talented female writers. This is my current reading list for Spring. 



The Love Hypothesis 

by Ali hazelwood 


BOOK DESCRIPTION 


As a third-year Ph.D. candidate, Olive Smith doesn't believe in lasting romantic relationships--but her best friend does, and that's what got her into this situation. Convincing Anh that Olive is dating and well on her way to a happily ever after was always going to take more than hand-wavy Jedi mind tricks: Scientists require proof. So, like any self-respecting biologist, Olive panics and kisses the first man she sees.


That man is none other than Adam Carlsen, a young hotshot professor--and well-known ass. Which is why Olive is positively floored when Stanford's reigning lab tyrant agrees to keep her charade a secret and be her fake boyfriend. But when a big science conference goes haywire, putting Olive's career on the Bunsen burner, Adam surprises her again with his unyielding support and even more unyielding...six-pack abs.


Suddenly their little experiment feels dangerously close to combustion. And Olive discovers that the only thing more complicated than a hypothesis on love is putting her own heart under the microscope.


From Chapter Indigo 




Twisted Games 
by Ana Huang 


BOOK DESCRIPTION


Stoic, broody, and arrogant, elite bodyguard Rhys Larsen has two rules: 1) Protect his clients at all costs 2) Do not become emotionally involved. Ever.
He has never once been tempted to break those rules...until her.
Bridget von Ascheberg. A princess with a stubborn streak that matches his own and a hidden fire that reduces his rules to ash. She's nothing he expected and everything he never knew he needed.


Day by day, inch by inch, she breaks down his defences until he's faced with a truth he can no longer deny: he swore an oath to protect her, but all he wants is to ruin her. Take her.
Because she's his.


His princess.
His forbidden fruit.
His every depraved fantasy.
 

From Chapter Indigo 




The Deal 
by Elle Kennedy 


BOOK DESCRIPTION


...and it's going to be oh so good
All Garrett Graham has ever wanted is to play professional hockey after graduation, but his plummeting GPA is threatening everything he's worked so hard for. If helping a sarcastic brunette make another guy jealous will help him secure his position on the team, he's all for it. But when one unexpected kiss leads to the wildest sex of both their lives, it doesn't take long for Garrett to realize that pretending isn't going to cut it. Now he just has to convince Hannah that the man she wants looks a lot like him.


She's about to make a deal with the college bad boy...

Hannah Wells has finally found someone who turns her on. But while she might be confident in every other area of her life, she's carting around a full set of baggage when it comes to sex and seduction. If she wants to get her crush's attention, she'll have to step out of her comfort zone and make him take notice...even if it means tutoring the annoying, childish, cocky captain of the hockey team in exchange for a pretend date.


From Chapter Indigo 




It happens one summer 
by Tessa Bailey 

BOOK DESCRIPTION


Piper Bellinger is fashionable and influential, and her reputation as a wild child means the paparazzi are constantly on her heels. When too much champagne and an out-of-control rooftop party land Piper in the slammer, her stepfather decides enough is enough. So he cuts her off and sends Piper and her sister to learn some responsibility running their late father’s dive bar... in Washington.
Piper hasn’t even been in Westport for five minutes when she meets big, bearded sea captain Brendan, who thinks she won’t last a week outside of Beverly Hills. So what if Piper can’t do the math, and the idea of sleeping in a shabby apartment with bunk beds gives her hives? How bad could it really be? She’s determined to show her stepfather—and the hot, grumpy local—that she’s more than a pretty face.


Except it’s a small town and everywhere she turns, she bumps into Brendan. The fun-loving socialite and the gruff fisherman are opposites, but there’s an undeniable attraction simmering between them. Piper doesn’t want any distractions, especially feelings for a man who sails off into the sunset for weeks at a time. Yet as she reconnects with her past and begins to feel at home in Westport, Piper starts to wonder if the cold, glamorous life she knew is what she truly wants. LA is calling her name, but Brendan—and this town full of memories—may have already caught her heart. 


From Chapter Indigo 

Your Spring Reading List Is Here!



Spring, Spicy & Sweet reading list 


Spring is officially here, and I'm still catching up on the spicy romance novels I missed. Let's stock up on physical books or digital ones on Kindle. Books are much-needed relaxation for consumers. I love reading spicy novels written by talented female writers. This is my current reading list for Spring. 



The Love Hypothesis 

by Ali hazelwood 


BOOK DESCRIPTION 


As a third-year Ph.D. candidate, Olive Smith doesn't believe in lasting romantic relationships--but her best friend does, and that's what got her into this situation. Convincing Anh that Olive is dating and well on her way to a happily ever after was always going to take more than hand-wavy Jedi mind tricks: Scientists require proof. So, like any self-respecting biologist, Olive panics and kisses the first man she sees.


That man is none other than Adam Carlsen, a young hotshot professor--and well-known ass. Which is why Olive is positively floored when Stanford's reigning lab tyrant agrees to keep her charade a secret and be her fake boyfriend. But when a big science conference goes haywire, putting Olive's career on the Bunsen burner, Adam surprises her again with his unyielding support and even more unyielding...six-pack abs.


Suddenly their little experiment feels dangerously close to combustion. And Olive discovers that the only thing more complicated than a hypothesis on love is putting her own heart under the microscope.


From Chapter Indigo 




Twisted Games 
by Ana Huang 


BOOK DESCRIPTION


Stoic, broody, and arrogant, elite bodyguard Rhys Larsen has two rules: 1) Protect his clients at all costs 2) Do not become emotionally involved. Ever.
He has never once been tempted to break those rules...until her.
Bridget von Ascheberg. A princess with a stubborn streak that matches his own and a hidden fire that reduces his rules to ash. She's nothing he expected and everything he never knew he needed.


Day by day, inch by inch, she breaks down his defences until he's faced with a truth he can no longer deny: he swore an oath to protect her, but all he wants is to ruin her. Take her.
Because she's his.


His princess.
His forbidden fruit.
His every depraved fantasy.
 

From Chapter Indigo 




The Deal 
by Elle Kennedy 


BOOK DESCRIPTION


...and it's going to be oh so good
All Garrett Graham has ever wanted is to play professional hockey after graduation, but his plummeting GPA is threatening everything he's worked so hard for. If helping a sarcastic brunette make another guy jealous will help him secure his position on the team, he's all for it. But when one unexpected kiss leads to the wildest sex of both their lives, it doesn't take long for Garrett to realize that pretending isn't going to cut it. Now he just has to convince Hannah that the man she wants looks a lot like him.


She's about to make a deal with the college bad boy...

Hannah Wells has finally found someone who turns her on. But while she might be confident in every other area of her life, she's carting around a full set of baggage when it comes to sex and seduction. If she wants to get her crush's attention, she'll have to step out of her comfort zone and make him take notice...even if it means tutoring the annoying, childish, cocky captain of the hockey team in exchange for a pretend date.


From Chapter Indigo 




It happens one summer 
by Tessa Bailey 

BOOK DESCRIPTION


Piper Bellinger is fashionable and influential, and her reputation as a wild child means the paparazzi are constantly on her heels. When too much champagne and an out-of-control rooftop party land Piper in the slammer, her stepfather decides enough is enough. So he cuts her off and sends Piper and her sister to learn some responsibility running their late father’s dive bar... in Washington.
Piper hasn’t even been in Westport for five minutes when she meets big, bearded sea captain Brendan, who thinks she won’t last a week outside of Beverly Hills. So what if Piper can’t do the math, and the idea of sleeping in a shabby apartment with bunk beds gives her hives? How bad could it really be? She’s determined to show her stepfather—and the hot, grumpy local—that she’s more than a pretty face.


Except it’s a small town and everywhere she turns, she bumps into Brendan. The fun-loving socialite and the gruff fisherman are opposites, but there’s an undeniable attraction simmering between them. Piper doesn’t want any distractions, especially feelings for a man who sails off into the sunset for weeks at a time. Yet as she reconnects with her past and begins to feel at home in Westport, Piper starts to wonder if the cold, glamorous life she knew is what she truly wants. LA is calling her name, but Brendan—and this town full of memories—may have already caught her heart. 


From Chapter Indigo 

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THE LUCKIEST GIRL CLUB PROUDUCT VIEW FOR THE NEVER LOST KEYCHAIN RATING 10/10









Pinterest made me buy this: The never Lost Keychain from Lululemon

THE LUCKIEST GIRL CLUB PROUDUCT VIEW FOR THE NEVER LOST KEYCHAIN RATING 10/10









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Self-love philosophy


Put yourself first. Love yourself. Put yourself on the highest pedestal, and don't ever come down. - Lori Harvey


It's time to channel your selfish girl era into your life. It's time to decide to focus on herself and her career. Being selfish isn't a crime; it's a right. I wanted to live in many when the era's trend started on TikTok. We need to be selfish with our time and energy. Don't feel guilty for priorities your peace and energy. It's okay to set boundaries and say no to protect yourself. Right now, I'm prioritizing myself and not feeling guilty about making choices for myself. Let's listen to a quote from Lori Harvey: "This time, it's about me: Self-love, self-care, self-reflection. I'm being a little selfish right now. It's my time."


BEST INVESTMENT


Saying NO 
Only do things that serve you 
No pity party 
Sit in your feeling, then let them go 
Don't feel guilty 
Put yourself first 
Use time wisely 
Take yourself on a solo date 
Think positively 
Purchase things you need to advance your life


ADD THIS TO YOUR LIFE 


Put yourself on a pedestal. 
Love/care for yourself every day
Be selfish with yourself 
Choose to let go 
Stay in tune with your thoughts and feelings 


Entering your Selfish-Girl Era


Self-love philosophy


Put yourself first. Love yourself. Put yourself on the highest pedestal, and don't ever come down. - Lori Harvey


It's time to channel your selfish girl era into your life. It's time to decide to focus on herself and her career. Being selfish isn't a crime; it's a right. I wanted to live in many when the era's trend started on TikTok. We need to be selfish with our time and energy. Don't feel guilty for priorities your peace and energy. It's okay to set boundaries and say no to protect yourself. Right now, I'm prioritizing myself and not feeling guilty about making choices for myself. Let's listen to a quote from Lori Harvey: "This time, it's about me: Self-love, self-care, self-reflection. I'm being a little selfish right now. It's my time."


BEST INVESTMENT


Saying NO 
Only do things that serve you 
No pity party 
Sit in your feeling, then let them go 
Don't feel guilty 
Put yourself first 
Use time wisely 
Take yourself on a solo date 
Think positively 
Purchase things you need to advance your life


ADD THIS TO YOUR LIFE 


Put yourself on a pedestal. 
Love/care for yourself every day
Be selfish with yourself 
Choose to let go 
Stay in tune with your thoughts and feelings 


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entering my mid-20's crisis era










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It's time for a new beginning and a new era to start. Now it's time to update your lifestyle and enter a chapter. Create your vibes by upgrading your favourite lifestyle categories. After a confusing on-and-off winter, I am ready to take full advantage of the weather on the go. Right now, I'm investing in my well-being by using new habits to achieve my goals. Let's hit reset and build a new her, aka you. 



 "Healthy girl starter pack" 


  1. Invest in yourself - your well-being by yourself happy.  
  2. Subscribe to an empowering podcast.  
  3. Get a new water bottle or Tumblr 
  4. Update your tote bag and basic accessories
  5. Refresh your space or arrange your space 
  6. Make a feel-good playlist.
  7. Start journaling your feelings 
  8. Throw a movie tonight with your favourite snacks
  9. Take some time to read a novel 
  10. Sign up for new activities 
  11. Add a daily walk to your daily routine
  12. Invest in a capsule wardrobe
  13. Create finance budget 
  14. Find a new go-to recipe.
  15. Update your phone background with something that makes you happy.


Hitting Reset This Spring with a "Healthy girl starter pack."




It's time for a new beginning and a new era to start. Now it's time to update your lifestyle and enter a chapter. Create your vibes by upgrading your favourite lifestyle categories. After a confusing on-and-off winter, I am ready to take full advantage of the weather on the go. Right now, I'm investing in my well-being by using new habits to achieve my goals. Let's hit reset and build a new her, aka you. 



 "Healthy girl starter pack" 


  1. Invest in yourself - your well-being by yourself happy.  
  2. Subscribe to an empowering podcast.  
  3. Get a new water bottle or Tumblr 
  4. Update your tote bag and basic accessories
  5. Refresh your space or arrange your space 
  6. Make a feel-good playlist.
  7. Start journaling your feelings 
  8. Throw a movie tonight with your favourite snacks
  9. Take some time to read a novel 
  10. Sign up for new activities 
  11. Add a daily walk to your daily routine
  12. Invest in a capsule wardrobe
  13. Create finance budget 
  14. Find a new go-to recipe.
  15. Update your phone background with something that makes you happy.


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